• OkeyEffect@feddit.org
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    10 小时前

    The point is not how common or uncommon this is. The point is the phenomenon itself. Also, your personal experience in how common this is cannot be used as a basis for knowing the general prevalence. The truth is, it does happen. Not all men, but always men.

    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      2 小时前

      Not all men, but always men

      “Not all X but it’s always X” is a common neonazi saying. Using it in a different context can even be a dogwhistle in some cases

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      Not all men, but always men.

      1. No shit, we’re talking about condoms, goofball.
      2. How would you feel about someone saying “throwing your newborn into a dumpster, women are horrible…the truth is, it does happen. Not all women, but always women”? Would you instantly magically understand the massive logical flaw once the ‘target’ isn’t a demo you’re already biased against?
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        2 小时前

        My point is that saying “not all men” every time a problem is addressed is undermining the discussion. Until you have experienced the relentless harassment of women by a subset of the male population, funnily enough present in every country on Earth, please don’t lecture me on bias.

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          51 分钟前

          saying “not all men” every time a problem is addressed

          saying “not all men” every time all men are held accountable for what a tiny minority of men do*

          Fixed.

          The only thing it “undermines” is the sexist generalization.