• Rentlar@lemmy.ca
    15·
    1 year ago

    But why the hell would your friends hang out with you if they all hated you?

    “Yeah we have too much love in our life, we need to bring someone into our group just to hate on them.” - No friend group, ever, other than bullies.

    • FoxyFerengi@lemm.ee
      16·
      1 year ago

      In my head it’s always because people pity me, instead of actually like me. I think I’m the most pathetic human alive, so everyone else obviously feels the same way

    • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      7·
      1 year ago

      I know. And I keep telling my stupid brain that.

      I do keep acting as if I truly believe that my friends and close ones like me, but sometimes it really does feel like a mask. The most productive thing to do is to act as if you are liked, even if you don’t believe it.

      But no yeah irrational brain is dumb. Ever catching onto the smallest innocent thing, thinking “this is it” (it’s almost never it). It’s exhausting.

      • Rentlar@lemmy.ca
        1·
        1 year ago

        I impulsively calculate and iterate on the “what-if this, what-if that” myself too, which is unhealthy and leads me to stress when I overdo it.

    • idunnololz@lemmy.world
      3·
      1 year ago

      Cause ur a joke. They invite you so can observe what a disaster you are so they can joke about you after you’ve left. They need to invite you back every now and then to get new material. /s