
That’s all well and good if we’re talking about things happening at a small town watering hole, but really doesn’t work in the context of online spaces. We’ve already given them exactly what they wanted by posting, attention. There’s a reason the saying is to not feed the troll.
You’re not going to instill fear or change minds under the veil of anonymity. They won’t learn until they face the consequences of their actions and words in real life, whether that’s being excluded from opportunities(but more than likely they’ll double down on their bigotry in this case) or being forcefully disillusioned(like meeting an actual trans person).
I’m in the same camp as you(I have pics on my profile if you care to see) and for the most part anal has been out of the question for most of my past partners. My current partner enjoys it and can take me, but it’s not something that happens often because she doesn’t have the patience for warmup and prep and it quickly becomes a “just fuck me already” and we do it the old fashioned way.
Out of curiosity, as someone who has never been with someone who’s uncut, what advice would you offer someone to give you the best oral experience?