Someone who’s hyper independent would prefer solitude and would likely have problems with relationships for a number of reasons including being really out of practice. And not having any reference point for understanding what a secure attachment looks and feels like.

You can have a significant preference for being alone, require a great deal of quiet time and still suffer from social isolation.

It’s all interconnected, we’re not designed to live a life alone.

Having said that I still wish people would stop approaching me when I leave the house :/

They clarified that the cleric is non binary too. What an amazing labour of love.

What you mean by bad man? unless you’re committing war/ sex crimes… try therapy, drugs or changing your gender. It’s sad that people daydream about that but also kinda delusionally narcissistic, like in a way that could benefit from therapy or just talking to a single other person

That makes sense and is pragmatic, it’s just been hard to compartmentalize lately. The psychiatric system can often work to further marginalise and straight up hurt people with severe disorders, disorders that likely wouldn’t exist, at least to the same severity without capitalism and everything that comes with it. I’ve been so sensitive to it lately, hence mention of justice sensitivity but the fact that we have a box for people who see bad shit and say “hey that’s fucked something needs to be done about that”, it honestly makes my skin crawl for lack of a better phrase.

I’m with you but it’s a generational thing. Are you a millennial?

Not parent, just dysfunctional child of parent.

This would wreck my brain a bit trying to play a role that’s seemingly immensely important to my parents.

I’ve decided this is good and want a Lemmy that is restricted to just the nerdiest of nerds. These little spaces are cool without all those horrible reddit users.

Ah, sorry then. I only saw the Kendrick clip afterwards. D&D is the best

Right!? Trump very much ran on a platform of breaking down government institutions so the messaging is going to have to get a little more clear.

Also people are already dying but as many of us know it’s not going to be readily accessible information. Neither is the god damn revolution. Words of wisdom he kind of pissed on there.

As a victim of actual child predators I’m over it being used as a political device too, especially when it’s used to hurt and villanize my trans brothers and sisters

The whole thing was deeply unnerving

Oh, I was like “why are you telling me this?” It’s because you still think boycotting does something right? Right.

Go back and watch This is America. Sounds trite but just do it.

Just my wife, who downloaded the app for me and subscribed to instances because it’s too complicated and effort

Aren’t they turning that into a movie at the moment too?

Oh yeah, lifestyle changes will totally change the system, just look how far green capitalism got us /s. As far as I can tell, personal responsibility and guilt is a tool used very successfully by the oppressive classes. It’s not progressive to point the finger at people who don’t have the luxury of hand picking an “ethical profession”-something I’d love to see an example of? Find better targets to be angry at bud.