I’ve used the forget me not add-on and didn’t have any problems with it so faar, not sure about strict mode though. Its mostly been set and forget for me

I had a similar experience with openclaw and minimax m2.7

I gave it ssh access to one other device to do one thing and it apparently just “decided” that it would just execute everything there instead of locally as originally instructed.

By encrypting the message before sending it, same way we use pgp over email woulb be my guess (obviously the other person would need to have the same app for it to work)