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  • So many good ones here. I’ve watched a few from the ones you mentioned. All of them I pretty much enjoyed a ton.

    1. Re Life
    2. Bunny girl senpai
    3. Sakura-sou no pet na Kanojo
    4. Boku no kokoro no yabai yatsu
    5. Kimi no nawa

    Re life, kmi no nawa and bunny girl senapi gave me depression for a short while back in the day. Boko no Kokoro no yabai yatsu was probably one of the better ones to come out in recent times.

    I also think I watched the first 2 episodes of Kaicho wa Maid Sama a long time ago… I almost forgot it existed.

    Hiscore girl, tsuki ga kirei and Spice & wolf are in my never ending watch list, thanks for reminding me again. As for gosik, it’s my first time hearing about it… Will check it out tho.

    Also please go ahead and comment the experimental ones you mentioned, I think I’ll find something interesting

    Also my apologies for not mentioning the ones I already watched in my post.





















  • It is possible that this is the case with him. Since he is not good with secrets and will definitely talk behind my back, I stopped sharing anything personal with him. He also digs up such topics from long back and uses it as part of his attack. He probably hates me because I do not share anything personal with him anymore.

    Well nowadays I control what I share with the group. wouldn’t want any unnecessary arguments over some silly shit.

    I’d love to read up on topics like “breaking illusion of control” you mentioned. Please do suggest if you know any good articles or books that touch on this matter.


    • 2 of the guys work for the same startup. One of them is the main ‘problem guy’. This guy quickly embodies the traits of the crowd he spends the most time with. So It’s possible that take 1 is the case.

    • All of us are out of college. We are not too far apart, so we are able to meet up easily if we want to (for now).

    On a different note- The start of this friend cricle was centered around gaming. I think some people might have different rules (subconciously) for deciding if a person belongs to a certain group. Maybe… just maybe the fact that I’m not able to play games with them regularly made him (the problem guy) subconsciously think that I’m not part of the group anymore. Especially since I do not adhere to the core values (gaming everyday). It’s possible that has caused a seperation in the group. I think I’m overthinking this. So I’ll leave it at that.

    • Take 3 seems like the most possible. I had noticed some signs way back. Now it is way more fleshed out.

    Now that I look at it, the ‘toxic’ nature may be a sum of all of the above mentioned takes.