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Cake day: September 14th, 2023

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  • Okay, so I posted initially to correct your false statement that:

    Children were never eating tide pods either.

    What you said was demonstrably false.

    You then tried to walk that back by saying those ingestions were unintentional and posted a link to a consumer reports article about adults with dementia eating tide pods.

    Now you are following it up by implying it applies to cognitively delayed teenagers.

    Are you saying that your initial statement about children never eating tide pods is true based on this?

    Because there are actual videos of (probably) non-cognitively delayed teenagers doing this.

    I don’t understand why you’ve chosen this hill to die on. Is this one of those things where you’re so sure you’re right you can’t admit you were wrong? :o



  • How does one unintentionally eat a tide pod? So you tell the guy when you’re checking in at the ER “Homie and I were just playing catch with a tide pod and I was yelling at cousin Mabel to get off the dang roof and it just dropped into my mouth and I swallowed. It was a one in a million shot doc. One in a million.”

    More likely they did it intentionally and didn’t want to admit to it to avoid embarrassment. That or one of their dumb buddies thought it’d be funny based on some Tiktok they saw so they dropped one into someone’s bowl of Doritos.

    Either way all I was doing was correcting a false statement you made about children never eating tide pods. Because they surely did.









  • It’s not that you’re specifically embarrassing but your presence probably works against an image he’s trying to cultivate with his friends. Kids at this age are probably more looking to find approval from their peers. One of the ways they do that is by demonstrating independence which is “mature” and cool.

    Having Mom hovering around constantly reminding him and his friends that he is in fact not independent yet, while true, is probably the last thing he wants, so his seeking to minimize your presence when his friends are over is pretty normal.

    He probably thinks you’re a cool Mom but he’s trying to build a reputation for independence with his friends and your presence works against that. If you want to be really cool in his eyes, don’t even bring them snacks. Let your son know where he can get them and let him bring them to his friends himself and learn how to be a good host.

    The only dynamic I found a bit off is that he specifically wanted you to confine yourself to your room. It’s still your house and the fact that he thinks he should be able to restrict yourself like that probably isn’t the healthiest idea for him to cultivate. Just do your own thing you’d normally do at the house and don’t specifically intrude on their interactions unless they initiate.