I’d say it depends what “best” means. There is Codeberg, Gitea, Gitlab and others. Last year or so they started Radicle (http://radicle.xyz) which is decentralized, but I don’t know how far they are.
The site https://women-in-tech.org may also be interesting.
It’s definitely time for Searx MetaSearch or projects like https://yacy.net/
There is a BBC article on Cloudflare’s beginnings, saying, ". …when he (Cloudflare’s CEO Matthew Prince, ed.) got an unexpected phone call from the US Department of Homeland Security asking him about the information he had gathered on attacks.
Mr Prince recalls: “They said 'do you have any idea how valuable the data you have is? Is there any way you would sell us that data.” "
Cloudflare blocks Tor by default. Technically it is a man in the middle (which is VERY unfriendly to say the least). It decrypts your data. It is a big step towards the centralization of the web.
You may also consider https://njal.la.
Gitea looks good. What lets them a bit down imho is that they are using Cloudflare.