I haven’t hosted my own matrix server yet. is it safe to join an instance? I don’t really know how private that would be. the question is when I signup/login would I be giving out my IP? is the metadata private? sorry for asking this, I’m just a bit paranoid
So why not Jami? (https://jami.net/)
It’s P2P so no servers and it’s a GNU project.
I tried this a few times, but for me it never worked reliably. Are you using it as a day-to-day kind of thing? Family and friends?
yeah, I think It’s best on a zombie apocalypse, or a mass surveillance one. since messages can only be sent when both peers are online
I never tried it, but heard from well-known people that it has the highest opsec.