She was dry as a bone. Maybe a broth

So they can remember to pay child support?

Yep, we called them crypto wars

You mean outlawing buying a second hand pixel phone and flashing it yourself?

Mullvad has zero kyc

The problem with those is that the picture quality is not the same as traditional TVs.

And if you then keep it for yourself you’re an hedgehog!

Tbh just take any stock photo from image search online

Sounds amazing? What kind of sake did you use and for how long did you let marinate?

I bet that thing was fast!

And your words show your lack of experience in the matter. Usually work laptops have their bios locked down, so you can’t access it and change the boot sequence and install what you want.

Some just put a password that sometimes can be reset, other times there are full on lockdowns by dedicated security apps that are very difficult (if not impossible) to circumvent.

Also because death by shaken baby syndrome is unfortunately a very common thing

Forewarnig of “every kid is different”, so ymmv.

One of my kids would fall asleep while nursing as well but keep sucking in his sleep! But hey you found what works for you (see forewarnig).

For the first 2 weeks (at least) yeah that’s all they do: eat, sleep, fill diapers. However it’s never too early to have some cuddle/play time. Gentle caresses all over, like a light massage, especially after bath time with some oil maybe. Singing (or even just talking to them) is great as you’ll soon start to see them reacting to your voice.

As you’ll surely know their eyesight is not great at the beginning, but you will notice when they get more alert of their surrounding.

Skin to skin contact also is a great way to make them happy.

Apart for that, it’s way too soon to start worrying about “let’s not make a dick of this human”.

I recommend a book called “wonder weeks”, and once you have recovered from sleep deprivation, “raising boys”. BUT EVERY KID IS DIFFERENT, so don’t take them as the absolute truth, more like guidelines and food for thought.

Maybe get him some sensory toys, it’s a great way for them to start learning to explore stuff.

And finally, remember that kids learn by copying what they see. A lot of kids grow messed up because unfortunately they come from messed up situations.

He WILL make you mad and angry. Remember that anger is a secondary emotion, you need to be able to breathe and recognize what you’re angry at. And you can tell them, and also that you need a minute to calm down. If they see you dealing with strong emotions in a healthy way they’ll learn too (but also they WILL make you made on purpose as they learn boundaries by pushing them. Yes, they are little sociopaths).

There’s ton more stuff of course but the fact that you care and you’re concerned is already a good step. We all mess up in some way, but being able to put your ego aside and say sorry to them is a big thing. Don’t feel like you should always know the answers, we all make it up as we go!

Congratulations and good luck!

I think you mean Jami (single m).

It’s a nice concept but I’ll try to get my xmmp server nice and secured.

I thought the same! And sword for kings!

What’s the IP address (and related info, gateway and dns) you get on linux and what is the one in Windows?

Selfhosted gotify rules

You have no idea why that happened though. Are you absolutely 100% sure he’s the only bad actor in the relationship? Maybe it wasn’t “just an affair”.

Don’t draw conclusions from limited information.

Good thing they’re not someone but something