I just hate the guys voice. Sounds like he’s whining the whole time.

Anything by Kings of Leon, but especially Sex on fire

Just need some kool aid to prove people it’ll be alright and we’re golden

You’re gonna die old and you’re gonna like it

Well yeah. Not THE main charecter. But my point was to say your the main character of A story

Quantum Immortality

So one of my favorite books is Ender’s Game (fuck the author though). Which makes Ender the main charecter. But another one by him that I also really love is Ender’s shadow. Where it takes on of the lesser characters and makes them the main charecter.

So, we all are the main character. Just depends on the perspective.

This guy is defending nazis and slavery

Maybe not in our lifetime, but you’re really going to say ww2 wasn’t to stop evil? What about the civil war?

They had that and it didnt work

As someone who isnt qualified to answer any trans related question: just let them be as long as they’re not being a jerk

There are bigger fish to fry. There probably are people out there who fully think they’re a different race. Who’s to say their feelings are invalid while others feelings are.

And cover up your face and any visible tattoos or any other identifying features

Tomato, tomato

Eh. As an adult I get to fully choose which side I’m on. And going off of the facts I had at the time, id choose the side of not being with a cheating power abuser

But since more facts have been stated besides just i dont feel like it, its easier to pick a diffrent side.

This wasn’t cheater vs homophobe at first

I see where you’re coming from. But luck favors the bold. And I would most definitely regret not doing something for the rest of my life

But after the first attempt your no longer bold, just dumb.

I made a rule for myself because of stuff like this

If you’ve done something fun but incredibly stupid and got away with it the first time, never do it a second time.

I’m only stopping now cause OP cleared the situation up more.

Otherwise, I’d say I feel sorry for your mother. To have a child that wouldn’t have their back in that situation must be upsetting.

This person likes victim blaming

I see where you’re coming from. And I’m sorry that happened to you. Truly.

But OP only stated they dont want to go because well, it didn’t really effect them so why bother? So maybe I took this all wrong and I’m sorry if I did.

But for OP to be so dismissive of his mother’s feeling because he wants to continue hanging out with his dad is choosing a side.

Like, OP isn’t saying that mom says i have to move out but she’s never really been there for me. Or she makes bad decisions. Or some other reason would have me way more supportive. Just, I like hanging with my dad cause we’re best friends

But the dad is clearly not the best role model as he makes bad choices. He didn’t sleep with some random women. He didn’t sleep with one of his equal power co workers.

He slept with his young assistant. Which is not only shitty for the cheating reasons, but that’s literally abuse of power. Then as soon as the mom left, before the divorce is final, he moved her into the home which once house OPs family as if its no big deal

And OP acts like its nothingl and the mom is actually the bad person for feeling hurt.

The question could have been how do I tell my mom I still would like to have a relationship with my father after all this went down. But no. This whole question was looking for validation to not actually have to go with his mom for selfish reasons.

Oh wait? This isn’t about 2 gay men so its equal?

Ahhh. Yeah. Its all her fault. I understand OPs dilemma now

Edit: /s