I’m in a very car-centric city (Phoenix, AZ) but I use a cargo bike all the time, probably 90% of my local trips. I can’t count how many times someone in a car has done something to make my life a little easier, giving me a bit more space for example or waving me through so I don’t have to stop. There’s lots of bike hater stories out there, but it’s almost never been like that for me.

And on the other side, I let people know they have a tail/brake light out, all the time. Once you start noticing it, there’s a LOT of them.

Doesn’t seem to indicate whether groups will work with vertical tabs and unless that’s the case, I’m not switching from TST.

If you haven’t already read it, check out Chasing the Scream by Johann Hari.

Correct, that’s exactly what I did. We got it sorted out, through some combination of deleting the contact, deleting the chat, etc. I think the actual fix was to delete the contact and have them send their QR code directly and open it that way.

New memory fixed it.

Right, that’s what I would expect as well. Bios is updated to current and default reset. Memtest failures were after that - downloaded the full current v11 package from memtest86

Edit and no OC. 5800X, Asus b550m-a (WiFi) board. G.skill ram.

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I am currently hosting my own email on a server that I rent and I am absolutely sick and tired of email issues, spam, google randomly being assholes and blocking my family’s traffic, just stupid shit. It’s a second fucking job at times. I have DKIM, DMARC, SPF all configured correctly, Google just randomly decides to stop my traffic randomly. Which of these options would you recommend for say up to 20 email accounts or so, using your own domain? I assume all of these options do things like spam filtering on the back end.

To be clear, I am not looking for free, just reasonable.

Code monkey is the appropriate term

When a person has nothing left to lose they will take chances that otherwise they wouldn’t. If we weren’t living in a corporatocracy, perhaps there’d be no demand for this sort of thing, but we do and there is.