She could just be learning about autonomy and figuring out ways to express that. My kid (4, just as stubborn as his papa) still does this from time to time, and it’s frustrating - I just remind him that holding it in can make things hurt, and that we want to avoid accidents. Forming the habit of going potty before bedtime is paramount, don’t let that go.

Alternatively, I wonder if she had a particularly bad/painful experience and is now scared something like that might happen again. If this sounds plausible, and you and your partner haven’t seen it, maybe try asking the daycare if she has tried using the potty and if there were negative experiences.

There’s no need to be rude, dude

There is another comment with a link to the non-paywalled article

The day the earth stood stupid

You right

I remember a few people got caught for hiring a hit man at hireahitman.com (or something equally on the nose and obvious).

In that case, at least, law enforcement set up the website

I’m trying out Thunder and like it for the most part, but I can’t seem to get messages to work

Thank you so much! Though there’s a typo in the link. For posterity - !bestofredditorupdates@lemmit.online

Edit: actually I still get a 404 so maybe I’m the problem 😔

Please forgive my ignorance, but how would I go about viewing that in my Lemmy app (boost)? I’m still getting used to everything here