Your reality, sir, is lies and balderdash… and I’m delighted to say that I have no grasp of it whatsoever!
I don’t think that Note Station has been updated (other than maybe security patches) for years. I tried it when I was looking for an Evernote replacement and was shocked how basic it is.
Sure I’m not going to be the first one to ask you this but have you tried Obsidian?
I’m fairly noob-ish but have run Tailscale like this for about a year:
Tailscale on your NAS runs as the host and when you open the Tailscale app on your phone you copy the IP it gives you and use that (plus the port that your services like Bitwarden, Calibre etc each use). Eg.
100.121.9.23:8081
THAT’s the sort of IP you the add to the Bitwarden app or type into your web browser.
I’m pretty amateur with tech but found Tailscale pretty easy to set up and run.
I joined as soon as it was open. Very quickly it was full of junk TiKtok videos (many with the Tiktok logo). As others have said you have to keep scrolling through the same videos in the same order to see anything new.
The feature that’s missing is some sort of “filter creator” that would enable users to build their own algos.
(To be fair, I can’t see why Tiktok works as an app other than as some global-scale brainwashing tool.)