Guys, if you were getting hot and heavy with your partner, and they brought up the topic of pegging, and told you they already bought a strap-on and wanted to use it on you, what would you say?

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    6 days ago

    From the lady’s side - no, absolute turn off for me. You can ask once, get the no, please never bring it up again. You want a finger in there while we are fucking or during oral, fine, or even want to be sandwiched every once in awhile, that’s hot, I know how guys are built. But strap on I find so unsexy I have a very negative reaction to them. Not sure why but they are sexual kryptonite to me personally.

    ETA sorry if this was unwelcome commentary. Just thought you might want some thoughts from those being asked to do the pegging. EETA because I don’t know any ladies who have asked to do it but do know some who were asked, figured that generally the request comes from the guy wanting pegged.

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      7 days ago

      What is being sandwiched? My mental image says it’s one thing, but “no strap-ons” suggests it’s something else? Unless there’s another person?

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        7 days ago

        One guy with his cock inside me, getting fucked by a guy at the same time. I do like threesomes with 2 guys, straight or bi, either way is fun. I don’t really enjoy the other kind of threesome because I’m not bi but have done some couple-with-couple stuff with other ladies involved.