one time i went to a strip club in my 20s, and i always thought it was a “no touching” thing. this girl put a rag on my lap and said i could touch her where ever and it was one of the most awkward experiences in my life.
it’s safe to say i never went back to a strip club after that.
My friends bought me a dance from a male dancer, in a private booth… once in there, the guy told me they’d paid for a blowjob as well. I kept my dick in my drawers and we chatted for a few minutes instead. Who the fuck wants paid sex, ick
I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn’t like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There’s of course that thing where “men” are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like “can i buy you a drink and lets talk” kinda person not “netflix and chill” type of person.
Sounds like you might enjoy kyabakura in Japan more than strip clubs. Dudes just go in there and drink expensive liquor and chat with pretty women. Although, I think they can get quite pricey.
Been to plenty and can’t see that flying for 2 seconds.
It’s a neat experience if you’re a man with a female date. The dancer’s treat you very differently and bend over backwards to make your woman feel comfortable and wanted there. Great fun!
one time i went to a strip club in my 20s, and i always thought it was a “no touching” thing. this girl put a rag on my lap and said i could touch her where ever and it was one of the most awkward experiences in my life.
it’s safe to say i never went back to a strip club after that.
My friends bought me a dance from a male dancer, in a private booth… once in there, the guy told me they’d paid for a blowjob as well. I kept my dick in my drawers and we chatted for a few minutes instead. Who the fuck wants paid sex, ick
I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn’t like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There’s of course that thing where “men” are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like “can i buy you a drink and lets talk” kinda person not “netflix and chill” type of person.
Sounds like you might enjoy kyabakura in Japan more than strip clubs. Dudes just go in there and drink expensive liquor and chat with pretty women. Although, I think they can get quite pricey.
… A rag?
I’ve never been to a strip club, and now have no desire.
Been to plenty and can’t see that flying for 2 seconds.
It’s a neat experience if you’re a man with a female date. The dancer’s treat you very differently and bend over backwards to make your woman feel comfortable and wanted there. Great fun!
yeah that’s what went though my head
Just ask if you can shake her hand or something
lol