Reminds me of a video I watched where someone was talking about fawning as a learned behavior from growing up with a narcissist. And then they differentiated fawning from “fluffing”, where you are temporarily fluffing up a narcissist to get a desired result out of them, like in a professional work context, so you can just get through the project and then get away from them when you’re able to. This feels like textbook fluffing.
Reminds me of a video I watched where someone was talking about fawning as a learned behavior from growing up with a narcissist. And then they differentiated fawning from “fluffing”, where you are temporarily fluffing up a narcissist to get a desired result out of them, like in a professional work context, so you can just get through the project and then get away from them when you’re able to. This feels like textbook fluffing.
isn’t that the guy on a pornshoot who keeps the pornstars hard
Yeah a fluffer is a [gender the male pornstar is attracted to] that does varying acts on the pornstar before shots start to ensure proper performance.
It’s basically the same thing just different situations.
oh i thought it was mostly men who mostly inject medications into those guys’ dicks to give them priapism
Lmao, shit, that is very similar terminology isn’t it. I wonder if the one use derives from the other.