A week ago, my mom figured out how to get through my bedroom door lock: using a screwdriver. I’ve heard her on a phone call with my uncle, and he showed her the trick. Whenever I don’t respond or give in, she could just insert the screwdriver through my lock, and bam, she can come in whenever she wants to.

I’ve searched online for getting around this, and I’ve decided on:

  • Getting a lock. (or something that (b)locks the door)
    • Using a portable lock. (Addalock, any others)
    • Using a doorstop.
    • Make your own lock. (like using a fork)

But then I thought that my mom would still enter using the screwdriver. The handle’s loose, so she knows she’s able to barge in. I could be wrong, though.

My door jamb has a dent, so she has a peephole to look in and might figure out why the door wouldn’t open.

Should I be able to get a lock? If not, are there any alternatives or other solutions?

Edit: Wanted to make a quick edit. My mom shows narcissistic traits, and would barge in the room for her own entertainment. I’ve tried asking her to leave a few times, even discussing about it with her, but she isn’t seeming interested to understand or listen. I would stay as far from her in my room in order to not attract her.

  • sorrybookbroke@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    I don’t know your situation. Though I’d caution you about contacting them without knowing your local CPS and their track record, I hope if it is or becomes untenable that’ll be an option.

    I wish the best for you. I know quite a few people who’ve had terrible experiances with their parents, I hope like them things can get better for you with time