A week ago, my mom figured out how to get through my bedroom door lock: using a screwdriver. I’ve heard her on a phone call with my uncle, and he showed her the trick. Whenever I don’t respond or give in, she could just insert the screwdriver through my lock, and bam, she can come in whenever she wants to.
I’ve searched online for getting around this, and I’ve decided on:
- Getting a lock. (or something that (b)locks the door)
- Using a portable lock. (Addalock, any others)
- Using a doorstop.
- Make your own lock. (like using a fork)
But then I thought that my mom would still enter using the screwdriver. The handle’s loose, so she knows she’s able to barge in. I could be wrong, though.
My door jamb has a dent, so she has a peephole to look in and might figure out why the door wouldn’t open.
Should I be able to get a lock? If not, are there any alternatives or other solutions?
Edit: Wanted to make a quick edit. My mom shows narcissistic traits, and would barge in the room for her own entertainment. I’ve tried asking her to leave a few times, even discussing about it with her, but she isn’t seeming interested to understand or listen. I would stay as far from her in my room in order to not attract her.
I’m here for the shitty advice! Fight toxic with toxic, let her barge in while you’re jerking off, and don’t stop once she’s in. See how long she keeps doing that shit afterwards.
sure but that could easily backfire depending on her opinions on that sort of thing
Then you start running for the door while your naked
… Aww. Why did the story stop?
My dad stopped opening my door without knocking as soon as I started sleeping naked. It could work. Narcissist are the worst, though. My dad has shame, a narcissist will turn their shame outwards and blame others for how they feel.