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Cake day: March 20th, 2024

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  • I bet you could create a system that runs someone user and domain thru a hash to produce a different alphanumeric value. Display that value instead of user@domain.
    So not exactly like 4chan, in that everyone has a user. But a username that is isolated from rest of fediverse. That would allow for ‘confessions’ type posts to not be linked to a standard account. And preserve ability of mods to ban the racists and trolls.
    I’m not coder. But it seems possible.



  • We used to have sector wide unions. So even if you were employed by a small business with a few employees, you were still covered by a larger union.

    I have family members who really appreciated the neck mounted fans that blow up at back of neck. relatively cheap at like 20-35.

    Might be worth getting a giant insulated water bottle to fill with ice, or bringing your own mini fridge and plugging it in somewhere. You could also try getting a Dr note saying you need accommodation - supply of ice water or cooling vests.



  • I’m writing this, sitting in a hotel room with the kids as my wife is outside chatting with her family.
    Family or friends with can help quite a bit. Just someone there to take up some of the kids attention is really all you’re asking for. If they want to do more than that, that’s good too.
    10 mo old is rough. I’d say, plan to be within 15-30 mins of a hotel for most of the trip. A lake/pool seems like a good option.














  • Do play dates with the same kids. Diff ones can be a lot.
    It helps if there’s something there that kid likes. And if you can lead the conversation.
    Look at all these pretty toys. My favorite color is blue. What’s your favorite color, Timmy? Max’s favorite color is green.
    Etc. etc.

    Feeling involved in the convo is good even if they aren’t speaking