I went on a “tangent” rather than answering your question, because I don’t agree with the underlying assumption.
You asked if it was speciesist to prefer one species over another. By definition it is, thats just what speciesism is defined as. I have an issue with the underlying assumption that speciesism is
a) bad
and
b) the same as racism
I could’ve just said: “yes, that is indeed speciesist”, but that wouldn’t have gotten my point across.
Your last paragraph hosently doesn’t have anything to do with anything I said. I don’t care about morals, but I believe one shouldn’t cause any more suffering than necessary, that goes for humans and animals.
I guess that I disagree with the notion that it’s bad to feel a certain way. We cannot control how we feel, only how we act.
And frankly its just unrealistic to ask people to love mosquitos just as much as they love cats.
I don’t need to love an animal to acknowledge their capability to suffer and to try to avoid causing any suffering to that animal.