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    A lot of people could have agreed all the years before ā€“ they didnā€™t. full stop.

    Insults? No, accusations, sure. His behavior was more than inappropriate and that was called out. Iā€™m baffled how one can rile up so much about the wording of the letter, but when RMS said something far more insulting thatā€™s okay, for some reason.

    And no, it matters whether heā€™s part of the FSF. Either heā€™s speaking on behalf of the FSF ā€“ or not. That heā€™s literally ā€œMr FSFā€ is indeed bad and part of the problem.

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      A lot of people could have agreed all the years before ā€“ they didnā€™t. full stop.

      The signees didnā€™t suddenly change opinion and agreed on something they disagreed with before. Like you yourself said, ā€œthis is nothing newā€, Stallman has been heavily criticized multiple times by his social behavior.

      The only thing that makes this time different is that they started collecting signatures and getting organizations to sign for an open letter that was created as a knee-jerk reaction to RMS being admitted in the board of directors of the FSF. A collective campaign as public and well known as this had never happened before, but people accusing Stallman in a such a way have existed for many many years. This is nothing new.

      Iā€™m baffled how one can rile up so much about the wording of the letter, but when RMS said something far more insulting thatā€™s okay, for some reason.

      Note that Iā€™m not saying the people who signed (or even wrote) the letter are bad, or toxic, or any other adjective. Iā€™m saying the letter itself (not who wrote it) is misdirected and could result in toxicity. This is the same kind of criticism I throw at Stallman. Itā€™s not in me where youā€™ll see the contradiction.

      Iā€™m sure who wrote the letter had the best of intentions, and most likely they were motivated by a will to improve the FSF, not hurt it. I just think the approach was incorrect. Not only in the wording but also in the demands they made.

      If instead of explaining that what I say is incorrect, someone tells me that I lack capacity to reason, I see that as an insult.

      The only way for it to not be an insult is if they came with solid evidence of the claim (ie. solid proof that Iā€™m unable to reason). Then it will just be a description of what I am, based on proof. But Iā€™ll feel insulted if you call me ā€œfascistā€ and Iā€™m antifa. Would you not feel insulted if you were accused of being the complete opposite of the values you hold dearest?

      Stallman has proven more than once that heā€™s a person committed to the ideals he holds (and one of them is to end ā€œracism, sexism, antisemitism, caste prejudice, and othersā€), and has also proven that when confronted about a topic in conversation he can change his mind (as he did about his views on child consent). So if we are to categorize him with the dehumanizing accusations the letter used, we better have solid proof that it wasnā€™t a mistake, that he really deserves it and that his public statements stating the opposite are a farce. Because heā€™s known to be misunderstood pretty frequently due to his social impairment. This is nothing new.

      Iā€™m all for criticizing him about his mistakes and confronting him, even to the extent of making him take responsibility for his social behavior. I can agree that he should not be a spokesperson for the movement, so I rather have him in a role where he can provide direction on the topics heā€™s good at (and he can do that as part of the board of directors) but making it so heā€™s banned from acting as spokesperson in situations that could result in misunderstandments or where someone could be hurt. Thereā€™s plenty of people who can take that role instead (eg. the actual President of the FSF: Geoffrey Knauth). Thatā€™s what the letter should have demanded, instead it demanded to remove Stallman from all directive positions (and not just him, but the entire board!) all while throwing unfair accusations that could lead to him being dehumanized by many when done in such a public way.

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        The signees didnā€™t suddenly change opinion and agreed on something they disagreed with before. Like you yourself said, ā€œthis is nothing newā€, Stallman has been heavily criticized multiple times by his social behavior. I expected youā€™d have agreed with me in that.

        I feel like weā€™re talking past each other here: I do agree! That is, indeed, part of my very point. Heā€™s been criticized many times, but hardly ever changed (we come back to that later).

        If instead of explaining that what I say is incorrect, someone tells me that I lack capacity to reason, I see that as an insult.

        I never intended to insult you, by the way, if that came of as such. I very much enjoy the discussion.

        However, how would you word a letter like that, when you know, from decades of experience, that the person will likely not change their behavior the same way they didnā€™t for years? Without implying that the person either a) lacks capacity to reason or b) is outright malicious? You ask for solid evidence, but ā€¦

        The only way for it to not be an insult is if they came with solid evidence of the claim (ie. solid proof that Iā€™m unable to reason).

        The problem here is that many of the things are done, due to the nature of the org, in private. To add a personal story of my hackerspace at university: RMS was in the city and we allowed him to stay for a day in our room at university. Little did we expect him to not move out at all. The only way to get him out again was to pay for a ticket to the next conference. Sure, one can add this to the huge list, but unfortunately I hardly can provide ā€œproofā€. Nobody collects such things.

        But, proof is not needed as we donā€™t want to judge him in front of a jury. The FSF in almost all accounts does already know what the people are talking about. This letter is not addressed to the public to hold condemnation and grudge against RMS, but addressed to those who know of the incidents. Usually this would be an ā€œinternal investigationā€, however the FSF doesnā€™t do such thing.

        Proof definitely would be nice, absolutely. But asking for proof of things that happened internally is asking for the impossible. Thatā€™s why I donā€™t judge people who hold him dearly, they are very much allowed to do so.

        I even understand if he feels insulted or attacked. Heā€™s confronted with the accusation that heā€™s not what he thinks to be. In fact, Iā€™ve been rightly accused in the same way, and honestly, it was hard, very hard. Sometimes, Iā€™d say, it was wrong, but sometimes the other person was indeed right. They couldnā€™t always provide proof, but they called out behavior in a message to me and I knew what they were talking about. The next step, though, wouldā€™ve been to call me out publicly, in case I didnā€™t change.

        Stallman has proven more than once that heā€™s a person committed to the ideals he holds (and one of them is to end ā€œracism, sexism, antisemitism, caste prejudice, and othersā€), and has also proven that when confronted about a topic in conversation he can change his mind (as he did about his views on child consent). So if we are to categorize him with the dehumanizing accusations the letter used, we better have solid proof that it wasnā€™t a mistake, that he really deserves it and that his public statements stating the opposite are a farce. Because heā€™s known to be misunderstood pretty frequently due to his social impairment. This is nothing new.

        Itā€™s not about ā€œdeserving punishmentā€ but protecting others, and the FSF, from harmful behavior. And, while I agree that his changed view on child consent isā€¦ a good thing to say the least, itā€™s a very bad thing if peopleā€™s identities (e.g., trans, non-binary people) are invalidated and disregarded (despite scientific evidence!) because heā€™s being pedantic about words. His hybris to think that, just because ā€œwordsā€ he has more knowledge on this topic than leading psychologists is telling. But worse is that trans or non-binary persons shouldnā€™t need to defend their very existence and identity at every corner in life. At some point (after decades of years) they cannot be expected to still talk and discuss with him, in very tiring and disrespecting discussions, what and who they are. Mind you, itā€™s great if minorities go out and tell people how it is to be X, but these people should be allowed to just live their life at some point.

        And RMS with his stances in the FSF isā€¦ not exactly a nice space for most of them. Proofs would be nice, and him changing his opinion would be nice as well. But this is much work that we can, perhaps, expect of the society as a whole but not from the minorities that are already discriminated against.

        And I agree that, in theory, the letter should demand just revoking him as a spokesperson. But do you seriously believe that this would stick? He basically made him member again w/o consulting with the board before ā€¦ he speaks when he wants, and just not making him spokesperson wonā€™t change that. Unfortunately.

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          First of all: sorry for the huge wall of textā€¦ as you can guess I also enjoy the discussion.


          I never intended to insult you, by the way, if that came of as such. I very much enjoy the discussion.

          Oh sorry, thatā€™s not what I meant. Youā€™ve been very respectful.

          It was an example to illustrate why I called some of the accusations of the letter ā€œinsultsā€, I didnā€™t want to imply that you insulted me. I should have said ā€œsomeoneā€ there (in fact I think I did it in a later edit but I might have been too lateā€¦ ugh).

          how would you word a letter like that, when you know, from decades of experience, that the person will likely not change their behavior the same way they didnā€™t for years? Without implying that the person either a) lacks capacity to reason or b) is outright malicious?

          Why not just state the facts and let them speak for themselves?

          Intentionally hurting people would definitely be a cause to remove him. I expect thatā€™s actually against the FSF code.

          The thing with making a public open letter like this is that you need to convince not only the FSF but also those that you are asking signatures from. Specially if theyā€™re also being asked to boicot the FSF donations and events.

          proof is not needed as we donā€™t want to judge him in front of a jury. The FSF in almost all accounts does already know what the people are talking about. This letter is not addressed to the public to hold condemnation and grudge against RMS, but addressed to those who know of the incidents.

          Then it shouldnā€™t be surprising to see a counter-reaction from those who do not have account of those incidents and who do not think the accusations are deserved.

          Like you said, this should not have been about ā€œdeserving punishmentā€ but about protecting others. Yet the letter does not talk much about the victims, the harm and what caused it. It does not really explain how removing Stallman stops him from that abuse or what has the FSF board of directors done wrong due to Stallman being part of it. The letter does come off as seeking punishment for his independent behavior.

          Even if they really did believe that RMS is behaving like that on purpose out of malice/phobia/insanity/other, had they made the exercise of assuming that it was a reiterated and constant mistake would have gone a long way to actually get the point across. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

          Itā€™s also ironic that when they actually try to give examples, the only thing they show are either things that have been later corrected by RMS himself (like the child consent thing, but also the GNU Kind Communication Guidelines) or things that when in context are clearly misunderstandments (he isnā€™t saying that by law all children with down syndrome should be forcefully abortedā€¦) or about that publicly available email thread about Minsky where heā€™s really not saying anything crazy when you actually read through it.

          RMS was in the city and we allowed him to stay for a day in our room at university. Little did we expect him to not move out at all. The only way to get him out again was to pay for a ticket to the next conference.

          That must have been quite a thingā€¦ he also came to my University (ages ago) and I heard some things from the organizers about how particular he was. I donā€™t really remember the details but I can imagine there are many stories like that. Heā€™s definitely very quirky. But Iā€™m sure thereā€™s more than one board of directors with a ā€œstrangeā€ nerd on it.

          Also, when heā€™s called to give a conference like this, normally itā€™s for him to talk about his philosophy and personal history in the Free Software movement, not really about his position in the board of directors from the FSF. So using this as a reason to kick him out would be misdirected.

          itā€™s a very bad thing if peopleā€™s identities (e.g., trans, non-binary people) are invalidated and disregarded (despite scientific evidence!) because heā€™s being pedantic about words.

          I agree, but are you referring to this? https://stallman.org/articles/genderless-pronouns.html

          Itā€™s possible that heā€™s trying to ā€œrespect the wishesā€ of non-binary people without really understanding what their wishes are. And knowing how particular he is about the correct manner of saying ā€œGNU/Linuxā€ I can imagine how a conversation about the topic with him could be difficultā€¦

          My understanding is that seeking a gender-neutral pronoun can actually be the wrong call, even as an heterosexual male I would find it patronizing if Stallman used the gender neutral pronoun on me, so I expect the same would happen for someone who identified as ā€œsheā€ / ā€œtheyā€ or any other pronoun. But is it actually transfobic?

          The open letter is locked now and they even closed the issue tracker, but before they closed it there was this comment from a trans person who actually thought accusing him of being a transfobe was too much.

          But do you seriously believe that this would stick? He basically made him member again w/o consulting with the board before ā€¦ he speaks when he wants, and just not making him spokesperson wonā€™t change that. Unfortunately.

          But asking for his removal and the dissolution of the entire board did not stick either.

          And even if it had, he still speaks when he wants. Not being in the board of directors is not gonna stop that. If his words are too loud is because of RMS popularity as independent ā€œphilosopherā€, not because of his position in the FSF.

          If the intention was to play poker and ask for something crazy to try and get anything at all thenā€¦ well, it shouldnā€™t be a surprise if that craziness is called out and it results in mixed reactions that end up mudding the waters and missing the point.

          Sure, in the end such poker move might actually work (if the real intention was to get some reaction from the FSF and not really what was demanded) but at what cost? Iā€™m sure things could have gone better by playing it cool. Many portrayed this as a ā€œwitch huntā€ and I donā€™t think those reactions were unjustified. This isnā€™t just bad image for RMS but also for the anti-RMS crowd, to the point that an anti-anti-RMS letter came up with 6000+ signatures, double than the original letter.

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            np, Iā€™m glad this is mutual!


            Oh sorry, thatā€™s not what I meant. Youā€™ve been very respectful.

            phew, I sometimes have the issue of coming off condescending, which I definitely do not intend :)

            Why not just state the facts and let them speak for themselves?

            Those facts are difficult to state, since they are mostly related to interpersonal evens like the one I stated. Although I agree that this wouldā€™ve been preferable.

            Intentionally hurting people would definitely be a cause to remove him. I expect thatā€™s actually against the FSF code.

            The thing with making a public open letter like this is that you need to convince not only the FSF but also those that you are asking signatures from. Specially if theyā€™re also being asked to boicot the FSF donations and events.

            I get your point here, but thatā€™s, to me the crux of the situation: These are internal events and often in violation of the FSFā€™s own code. Thus, there shouldā€™ve been an internal investigation, but that didnā€™t happen. The problem then though is: What now? As with allegations of (sexual) abuse, those things are hard to proof to the public. However, the FSF board very much knows of (most of) the cases they allude to, and they are the addresses.

            However, as you correctly observe, itā€™s an open letter since they need to build pressure on the FSF. But they canā€™t ā€œjust state the factsā€ for the reasons mentioned. This is, definitely, a difficult situation.

            But I donā€™t think everyone ought to ā€œdecideā€ to support one or the other letter, especially those completely outside of the circle. As they, indeed, have very little insight into what happened. Itā€™s an ugly situation, I totally agree with that.

            Then it shouldnā€™t be surprising to see a counter-reaction from those who do not have account of those incidents and who do not think the accusations are deserved.

            Absolutely, it isnā€™t surprising! The problem with the whole situation is that it should have been solved internally but hasnā€™t. Such things are predestined to go badly.

            In the end, the immediate circle of people affected (including the FSF board) can really judge. But also, in our society, it is simply a fact that everyone needs to position themselves, despite not actually really being in charge.

            Like you said, this should not have been about ā€œdeserving punishmentā€ but about protecting others. Yet the letter does not talk much about the victims, the harm and what caused it. It does not really explain how removing Stallman stops him from that abuse or what mistakes the FSF itself has done that have been a consequence of Stallman being part of the board. The letter does come off as seeking punishment for his independent behavior.

            I didnā€™t read the letter that way, but I can see how it can be read as punishment. I can not counter this and have to say that this shouldnā€™t be (wasnā€™t?) intended. I agree that discussing the problems the FSF had due to RMS would indeed have been a very healthy addition.

            Even if they really did believe that RMS is behaving like that on purpose out of malice/phobia/insanity/other, had they made the exercise of assuming that it was a reiterated and constant mistake would have gone a long way to actually get the point across. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

            Absolutely. In the end, the letter was an act of frustration long boiling and it reads that way.

            Itā€™s also ironic that when they actually try to give examples, the only thing they show are either things that have been later corrected when brought to the attention of RMS himself (like the child consent thing, but also the GNU Kind Communication Guidelines) or things that when in context are clearly misunderstandments (he isnā€™t saying that by law all children with down syndrome should be forcefully abortedā€¦) or about that publicly available email thread about Minsky where heā€™s really not saying anything crazy when you actually read through it.

            What I agree with is that they donā€™t properly differentiate b/w a) clear violations of other peoples personal identity or similar and b) bad PR stunts. From what I know, both things happened, while the former are usually internal issues (thus shouldā€™ve been resolved internally) and the latter, by definition, public. Taking the Minsky statement, what he said was not really crazy but uncalled-for and absolutely unnecessary pedantry. Furthermore, similar wording is also chosen in malice by those who are defending sexual abuse and belittling victims. I do think RMS wasnā€™t aware of what he did was basically unintentional ā€œdog whistlingā€ but this is very bad PR nontheless, and thus harmful to the FSF as a whole. Especially if it happens repeatedly, and no ā€œsorryā€ or ā€œcorrectionā€ later can, unfortunately, fix the publicity problems that result from it.

            It would have served them well if they had made a distinction b/w these two things.

            That must have been quite a thingā€¦ he also came to my University (ages ago) and I heard some things from the organizers about how particular he was. I donā€™t really remember the details but I can imagine there are many stories like that. Heā€™s definitely very quirky. But Iā€™m sure thereā€™s more than one board of directors with a ā€œstrangeā€ nerd on it.

            Sure, but quirky becomes bad rep when it ends in inappropriate behavior like pressing students with little money to pay for (quite expensive) tickets, by simply living in their ā€œworkplaceā€. He was told to end this behavior multiple times, but didnā€™t change. And thatā€™s kind of the issue.

            Also, when heā€™s called to give a conference like this, normally itā€™s for him to talk about his philosophy and personal history in the Free Software movement, independently of whatever his position is in the FSF. Kicking him out from the FSF is not preventing that scenario.

            Sure, but then itā€™s bad rep for mostly him and the Free Software movement (bad enough), but the FSF could easily do something like distancing themselves from him. This would do them very good in all such occasions.

            I agree, but are you referring to this? https://stallman.org/articles/genderless-pronouns.html

            Itā€™s possible that heā€™s trying to ā€œrespect the wishesā€ of non-binary people without really understanding what their wishes are. And knowing how particular he is about the correct manner of saying ā€œGNU/Linuxā€ I can imagine how a conversation about the topic with him could be difficultā€¦

            I think the key point is ā€œwithout really understanding what their wishes areā€, and maybe thatā€™s the distilled version of almost all criticism of RMS. Either he doesnā€™t care or he thinks he knows better what people wish for than themselves. At first, this is annoying or funny (GNU/Linux pedantry), but when it comes to people and how theyā€™d like to be addressed it quickly leaves that area and becomes downright hurtful.

            My understanding is that seeking a gender-neutral pronoun can actually be the wrong call, even as an heterosexual male I would find it patronizing if Stallman used the gender neutral pronoun on me, so I expect the same would happen for someone who identified as ā€œsheā€ / ā€œtheyā€ or any other pronoun. But is it actually transfobic?

            I wouldnā€™t count the usage of it transphobic per-se, but with many things -phobic and -ist, it comes down to the power (im-)balance. That is, in current law and society, a trans person defending themselves to be called the pronoun they want has a much harder stance to defend than a non-trans, cis, person. That is, while from RMSā€™ pov misgendering a cis man by referring to them as ā€œsheā€ or whatever is the same as misgendering a trans person by referring to them with a different pronoun than asked for ā€“ from the affected persons pov this is quite different. Most cis people would definitely feel patronized by it, but they could either shrug it off or, if in public, simply demand him to behave properly. A trans person whoā€™s regularly attacked and invalidated (in our current society) doesnā€™t have this luxury/privilege, and as such, these statements are hurtful and dangerous.

            Basically, what Iā€™m trying to say is: In a perfect society this wouldnā€™t be much more than patronizing. In a similar way, in a perfect society ā€œblack facingā€ wouldnā€™t be any different than ā€œwhite facingā€ ā€“ but acting as if we were in such a society is wrong and dangerous to minorities.

            Now, whether this is transphobic ā€¦

            The open letter is locked now and they even closed the issue tracker, but before they closed it there was this comment from a trans person who actually thought accusing him of being a transfobe was too much.

            ā€¦ this is definitely a dividing matter. In my bubble (which, uh, contains quite some people whoā€™re trans :p), the overwhelming opinion is that what he did, indeed, is transphobic. Obviously thatā€™s no ā€œproofā€, but it shows that these people, who experience transphobia from other persons in the society on a day-to-day basis, have a hard time distinguishing (unintentional) dog-whistling and ā€¦ patronizing behavior by Stallman from intentional attacks. Mind you, in public most transphobic people (outside of Fox News) disguise their transphobia rather well.

            While similar things have been reported for RMS as well (i.e., behaving much worse to trans people in private than in public) I donā€™t want to dwell on it, as itā€™s not that much convincing. I think, in the end, it boils down to whether one counts unintentional ā€œattacksā€ as transphobic or not.

            To open the RMS-like jar oā€™ pedantry, maybe one could say that:

            • RMS isnā€™t a transphobe
            • However, he/says does transphobic things and
            • He has internalized transphobia

            But then we need to ask ourselves: Does that change much? [to be continued since I reached the character limitā€¦ jeez]

            EDIT: continuation below in comment to this comment :)

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              ā€¦ Obviously itā€™s important to treat malice different from unintentional things when it comes to judging (and I know, you read the letter as judging and I didnā€™t but I see where youā€™re coming from and admit that itā€™s bad that it could be read that way). However, if you read the letter just as a demand to remove him to stop further harm (my reading) then, this is pretty much irrelevant.

              But asking for his removal and the dissolution of the entire board did not stick either. Itā€™s actually a demand harder to defend.

              And even if it had, he still speaks when he wants. Not being in the board of directors is not gonna stop that. If his words are too loud is because of RMS popularity as independent ā€œphilosopherā€, not because of his position in the FSF.

              Thatā€™s true, and, honestly, kinda shameful for the FSF. The FSF would/will/ā€¦ have a hard time to justify itā€™s sense w/o RMS.

              If the intention was to play poker and ask for something crazy to try and get anything at all thenā€¦ well, it shouldnā€™t be a surprise if that craziness is called out and it results in mixed reactions that end up mudding the waters and missing the point.

              Sure, in the end such poker move might actually work (if the real intention was to get some reaction from the FSF and not really what was demanded) but at what cost? Iā€™m sure things could have gone better by playing it cool. Many portrayed this as a ā€œwitch huntā€ and I donā€™t think those reactions were unjustified. This isnā€™t just bad image for RMS but also for the anti-RMS crowd, to the point that an anti-anti-RMS letter came up with 6000+ signatures, double than the original letter.

              I think, in hindsight, the way the letter was worded and prepared was the wrong step forward. Unfortunately, I also donā€™t really see an alternative. There were more kind, more proper, discussions before, for decades. Sometimes they even resulted in change!

              But where are we now, in the year 2021? The FSF has become irrelevant, for many reasons. Some can definitely be attributed to the way the Internet and corporations developed, how Open Source became a thing (ironically ESR has signed the anti-anti-RMS letter :D) etc. But also, the FSF was kind-of at the forefront of political discussion in the technology scene, with seeing the technology as someone that should revolve around human needs and society, and not vice-versa. It was refreshing, it was new, it was progressive.

              And while the FSF is still radical, it feels like thatā€™s the only thing left. Radical, senseless (to the point it becomes annoying), repeating of anti-firmware tirades etc. Obviously, many stances are still more progressive than the political climate, but theyā€™ve lost pretty much their target group. It feels like having Rosa Luxemburg as a leader of ā€œThe Leftā€: While certainly progressive, not fitting for the time.

              People pressed for changes, but nothing could be heard over the deafening presence of RMS. Maybe the best criticism of the FSF is that itā€™s just ā€œThe RMS Societyā€. Which isnā€™t necessarily bad, but it means that we have gap there, where an FSF that wouldnā€™t be ā€œjust RMSā€ would be.

              All in all, I think we agree on many points of the problem(s). And perhaps even, that such an ā€œopen letterā€ isnā€™t always bad, but simply whether this was the point of time that this letter should have been written. And also, that there are certainly some things in the letter that couldā€™ve been phrased better, to say the least.


              That was a long comment, but I felt much more comfortable quote-posting as I didnā€™t want to write this up from memory, in order not to talk past your points or misrepresent you.

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                Wowā€¦ I didnā€™t even know there was a character limitā€¦ :P

                Once again, very reasonable response(s). Honestly I think we fundamentally agree in most of the arguments, to the point that Iā€™m running out of things to add -says as he proceeds to drop another column-

                Iā€™m sorry but in my quote-posting Iā€™m gonna cherry-pick specific parts, not because I want to misrepresent you but because I donā€™t want to make it unwieldly. However, please call out at any point if Iā€™m missing something important you said or misinterpreting something.


                there shouldā€™ve been an internal investigation, but that didnā€™t happen. The problem then though is: What now? As with allegations of (sexual) abuse, those things are hard to proof to the public.

                This is the part that still seems strange to me. If these episodes are so frequent and blatant there must be plenty of testimonials, it wouldnā€™t be impossible to record conversation, an email threadā€¦ or someone could prepare a public interview with him where heā€™s confronted about controversial behavior, maybe giving opportunity to the victims to talk (anonymously maybe even, just a recording without the face, maybe even altered voice) and see RMS reaction and response to it. Specially for things that you said were recurrent and he has not fixed for years. Confront him about the fact that those have not been fixed for years and show it to him, then show the public what he has to say.

                Just having these kind of things exposed might actually spark change already, even without the need to collect signatures.

                I understand that itā€™s still a lot of effort and itā€™s not as easy to prove as more public forms of abuse, but I find it hard to believe that there would be no witnesses willing to give a testimony or some form of evidence. Specially in the world of Software, where a lot of communication happens electronically, even internally. If the issue is privacy policy, RMS could be publlicly asked for permission to show his private responses in such interviewā€¦ if he actually refuses thenā€¦ well, thatā€™d already look fishy and uncooperative which is something thatā€™d be good to get exposure on.

                If RMS had rejected to participating in such interview thenā€¦ well, thatā€™s something that could have been in the letter. If they cannot provide anything solid at the very least they should be convincing about why that is.

                Sure, but then itā€™s bad rep for mostly him and the Free Software movement (bad enough), but the FSF could easily do something like distancing themselves from him. This would do them very good in all such occasions.

                It would give good rep with those who were exposed to the proof. And at the same time it would also give bad rep with those who think that the removal was undeserved. This is why itā€™s important to be convincing.

                Had the FSF listened to the letter, removed RMS and completelly changed the entire board, it would not be a total surprise to me if the same motivation that pushed for the anti-anti-RMS letter ended up giving birth to a new alternative movement, more welcome to RMS and the directors from the previous board. Maybe a new foundation would have been created, in a similar way as how the Open Source Initiative differentiated itself from the FSF. Creating more division in the movement and taking a bite of the FSF cake.

                Maybe many in the OSI are secretly happy about all this drama, I wouldnā€™t be surprised if they got at least a small bump in supporters. After all they exist as a more pragmatic alternative to Stallmanā€™s FSF. Itā€™s also interesting that 4 out of the 16 people who appear as authors of the open letter are directors or former directors of the OSI.

                Obviously itā€™s important to treat malice different from unintentional things when it comes to judging (and I know, you read the letter as judging and I didnā€™t but I see where youā€™re coming from and admit that itā€™s bad that it could be read that way). However, if you read the letter just as a demand to remove him to stop further harm (my reading) then, this is pretty much irrelevant

                Thatā€™s sensible. I agree.

                If it isnā€™t read as an accusation of being ā€œmisogynist, ableist, and transphobicā€ (although if ā€œinternalizedā€ had been added then Iā€™d not argue), then you are right. If I do the exercise of reading it as only a demand, that would take away most of my criticism about the ā€œwordingā€ of the letter, and the only thing that would remain is my criticism of whether what was demanded actually stops further harm.

                People pressed for changes, but nothing could be heard over the deafening presence of RMS.

                And yet this time the pressure was much louder. Why is it that? Is it because of the wording and demands they made this time? Or is it because they actually tried this time to make it more public, wrote an open letter and use their influence and position in several organizations to push for it in social media, asking others to support and sign the petition at a time when RMS was already in the news for being readmitted? Why did they not do that when they were demanding him to change?

                It feels like people only decided to take a more serious and public action when they were angry and mad, misdirecting their demands by applying punishment as a form of poetic justice rather than thinking of an actual solution that could fix the problem.

                Maybe the best criticism of the FSF is that itā€™s just ā€œThe RMS Societyā€. Which isnā€™t necessarily bad, but it means that we have gap there, where an FSF that wouldnā€™t be ā€œjust RMSā€ would be.

                I agree it would be good to see a new flow of progressive change. But the sad thing is that there has not really been any loud voice inside or outside the FSF that introduced any new strain of philosophy as groundbreaking as the initial movement was in the 90s. The thing is that we arenā€™t talking about a new approach, we are talking about the respect for others that already has been claimed. What we are talking is not being progressive but being consequent with values we already are meant to defend.

                The issue is the question ā€œare these values not being respected?ā€. Thereā€™s division on the answer to that, and if the division is not solved and it keeps scalating then ultimatelly it could mean the FSF itself could divide, with a new organization appearing or maybe the OSI taking over the banner.

                The problem here is that both sides see each other as the enemy (this is very clear when seeing twitter), one side dehumanizing the other, as in a sort of ideological warfare. Dehumanization sparks dehumanization. And itā€™s hard to talk with someone about shared ideals when they have already dehumanized us.

                We will see. My hope is that RMS & the FSF will both see the mess and try and take the kind of measures that the open letter should have requested in the first place and it didnā€™t (things like making sure RMS controversial behavior is under leash, communicates only in written form externally or internally with those outside the board, never go to any event without some form of caretaker that knows how to deal with him, etcā€¦ or whatever measures would actually help with those problems that the letter didnā€™t explain). And then hopefully this whole war will slowly be forgotten.

                But it could also happen that they donā€™t manage to address the right problems (Iā€™m still skeptical on whether itā€™s true that the FSF & RMS know / understand what the problems are, since the letter wasnā€™t specific about them) or that even if they did address them, they are already dehumanized and the ideological war against them will never stop no matter what RMS & the FSF board do (other than removing themselves not only from the FSF but from all interaction with the community).

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                  I didnā€™t expect the limit to kick in as well, but there we go ā€¦ :)

                  I agree that we do mostly agree (whelp) and I think there is indeed not much to say but just to clarify our points to enhance mutual understanding. I think we have pretty much reached what some people call ā€œagree to disagreeā€ although I do not like this sayingā€¦

                  For the record, I donā€™t feel misrepresented at all, and thoroughly enjoy your responses!


                  This is the part that still seems strange to me. If these episodes are so frequent and blatant there must be plenty of testimonials, [ā€¦]

                  I cannot speak for those who wrote the letter, but I fear that thereā€™s indeed not much written record since most of the allegations I heard of (before, and outside of the letter) were with misdemeanor outside of electronic conversations in conferences. Although youā€™re right that such things shouldā€™ve been tried (Idk if they did, but if they did, they shouldā€™ve brought this up). However, as in many cases, the usual minorities are too tired (and also afraid) to speak up and donā€™t have the energy to fight for their cause. Meaning, their support group (friends, family) do the work which is in many ways unfortunate but also means that there will hardly be proper interviews or similar. Itā€™s difficult enough to do such an investigation when there are actual crimes. Also, I think, this wouldā€™ve increased and emphasized the ā€œguiltyā€ part even more, while the original intention was/shouldā€™ve been to make the FSF and RMS question their own deeds.

                  I totally agree that this misfired though.

                  Part of the issue is probably the writers of the open letter not really being sure themselves whether they want to prove RMS guilty or ask for introspection, and even subconsciously looking for ā€œjusticeā€ when thatā€™s actually not productive going forward. After all, the human being as a whole loves to jump on the justice/revenge/guilt band wagon far too easily. And even if criticism is well-founded, writing up this criticism is no fail-guard against unnecessary allegations of guilt.

                  Had the FSF listened to the letter, removed RMS and completelly changed the entire board, it would not be a total surprise to me if the same motivation that pushed for the anti-anti-RMS letter ended up giving birth to a new alternative movement, more welcome to RMS and the directors from the previous board. Maybe a new foundation would have been created, in a similar way as how the Open Source Initiative differentiated itself from the FSF. Creating more division in the movement and taking a bite of the FSF cake.

                  Maybe many in the OSI are secretly happy about all this drama, I wouldnā€™t be surprised if they got at least a small bump in supporters. After all they exist as a more pragmatic alternative to Stallmanā€™s FSF. Itā€™s also interesting that 4 out of the 16 people who appear as authors of the open letter are directors or former directors of the OSI.

                  Honestly, you voiced my secret biggest fear there. Iā€™m not a fan of the OSI at all, which makes this whole situation so tragic to me. In fact, maybe the failure of the anti-RMS letter was for the best in that sense, as that way the ā€œcreation of the alternative FSFā€ is initiated anti-RMS side, although Iā€™m not yet sure or convinced by the ā€œGNU Assemblyā€ either :D

                  I agree it would be good to see a new flow of progressive change. But the sad thing is that there has not really been any loud voice inside or outside the FSF that introduced any new strain of philosophy as groundbreaking as the initial movement was in the 90s. The thing is that we arenā€™t talking about a new approach, we are talking about the respect for others that already has been claimed. What we are talking is not being progressive but being consequent with values we already are meant to defend.

                  The issue is the question ā€œare these values not being respected?ā€. Thereā€™s division on the answer to that, and if the division is not solved and it keeps scalating then ultimatelly it could mean the FSF itself could divide, with a new organization appearing or maybe the OSI taking over the banner.

                  Absolutely agree. For what itā€™s worth, I think the only new ā€œprogressiveā€ voice here is the EFF, while strictly having a different focus, it is very much in the spirit of many things copy-left: User autonomy and rights. And since it also advocates for things that arenā€™t asā€¦ dare I say 'esotericā€¦ as software licenses but also privacy etc., itā€™s much more approachable to those who donā€™t have the software developer outlook on things.

                  But it could also happen that they donā€™t manage to address the right problems (Iā€™m still skeptical on whether itā€™s true that the FSF & RMS know / understand what the problem is) or that even if they did, they are already dehumanized and the ideological war against them will never stop no matter what RMS & the FSF board do (other than removing themselves not only from the FSF but from all interaction).

                  Iā€™m with you on being skeptical of RMS & FSF understanding the issue in the first place. Itā€™s something thatā€™s not even unique to RMS. My mom is definitely quite left and progressive but she has a hard time understanding most of the issues the left is fighting for, other than all the ā€˜old warsā€™ (tbf, sheā€™s 63), if it wasnā€™t for me explaining to her. And it must be me, since Iā€™m her child and have a connection I can actually use to bridge this gapā€”with the end result being that she understands the issues well enough to see.

                  But this bridge is very difficult to build if youā€™re online, have no family or friendship bonds, and the issue is smouldering for decades. Itā€™s doubly difficult since the primary issues the FSF fights for arenā€™t related at all to the problems discussed, thus discussing them inside the FSF or with RMS will always be seen as a distraction or annoyance, taking precious time away from their actual fight.

                  I guess weā€™ll see how this plays out. While I do hope that there will be change in the existing organizations, Iā€™m afraid that the FSF and the core of the free software movement will die sooner or later, either with a bang or silently. I do have hopes in the EFF though, as stated, in taking over many issues that should be addressed in some way.

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                    At the end of the day, you and me are not the ones who can solve this conflict, but RMS/FSF along with those who represent the victims and know of the abuse. They need to sit in a table together and actually talk about details, making sure the facts surrounding the matter are clear so specific actions can be taken.

                    We donā€™t know the details ourselves, and I think the main difference of opinion between us is when it comes to the different impressions we get when doing our ā€œguessworkā€ on those details, which were left untold in the letter.

                    But these are just guesses and I cannot feel strongly for something that I do not have any strong evidence for me to judge how undeserved or deserved the accusations are. This is why I think the approach from Debian in this case here was appropriate, not pronouncing themselves towards any side until something more concrete resurfaces.

                    It would be great if the EFF takes a more active role in regards to Software Freedom and takes some of the load from the FSF.

                    Thereā€™s one historical detail that makes the FSF still being there kinda important: the FSF is the copyright holder assigned to a lot of free software projects.

                    I mean, that shouldnā€™t be a huge deal, since itā€™s all GPL after allā€¦ but the copyright holder is who has ultimatelly the power to enforce the license. Although I doubt that this will really become a problem.

                    Another, a more pressing one perhaps, is the ā€œGNU GPL version x or any later versionā€ statement of the licenseā€¦ it would be bad if the disinterest towards who is in control of the FSF (I believe the FSF is the licenseā€™s publisher) can result in unexpected new developments for future versions.