An oldie, but a goodie

  • 1984@lemmy.today
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    1 年前

    Absolutely awful shit and I would be ashamed for decades if I acted like this to another person.

    Really shows the worst of him here. It’s rare that he becomes this toxic and humiliating.

    • naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 年前

      To his credit he undertook sensitivity training and is a much, much, better communicator now.

      He used to channel the whole juvenile angry-but-gifted programmer crap, accepted (eventually) the criticisms and did the right thing: changed.

    • mindlight@lemm.ee
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      1 年前

      I agree. In a leadership role it’s one thing what you say to a person in front of others and a completely different thing what you say when alone with them…

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        1 年前

        To be fair, if he said what he wrote here in private, it’d still be extremely bad leadership.

        Obviously he should correct them and point out why, but maybe not trash on them entierly.

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      I think he’s being fair and balanced. Also please stop calling mild irritation “toxicity”, it only makes you sound like a whiney douchebag who cries whenever they’re questioned about anything.