!femboy@lemmy.blahaj.zone might be an option?

Kagi has a fediverse search

Yep. Thus demonstrating the stereotype :)

Hazel has to have brown in the mix somewhere though

Sucks that I wouldn’t be able to shitpost about it, though.

That’s what mesh networking is for

You know your friend better than we do. Do what you think is right, and make sure you’re open to accepting that you’ll get it wrong sometimes, and then self correct.

The test is, are you punching down? That is to say, are you, from a position of privilege, ridiculing someone that lacks your privilege? If not, you’re ok.

That we’re all descended from convicts (though I am)

I use Cachy for the same reason :P

Comprehensible input will be useful for both of you, but particularly for your wife if she already has some Spanish. Dreaming Spanish is what I’ve been using, but there’s also plenty of comprehensible input channels on YouTube.

The issue isn’t the adult doing adult things, the issue is the viewers that are looking for content that is deliberately designed to look underage.

To be explicit, will the instance be open to hosting something like fauxbait, where the explicit goal of the group is to look underage?

What should I NOT do in front of rich people?

Diminish yourself or your self worth

Women face inequality across society.

Men only groups foster and grow that inequality.

Women only groups give women a chance to get away from the bullshit at least sometimes.

If and when we solve inequality, then we can come back and talk about whether gendered groups still have a place.

You know trans people exist right?

tbh, I didn’t get that far. It could be legit. It just didn’t sound legit, and I didn’t see a person in the first little bit I watched, so I turned it off before giving it much of a go. When combined with the clickbait headline, I just felt like I wasn’t going to get much out of it

I clicked, it sounded like an AI generated voice. I turned it off

That’s what dual booting is for!

Like it or not, the distinction is meaningless to people outside of the US

I mean, Kaity and I run a Jellyfin server for our family to access, as well as a couple of friends. But that’s about as public as it gets…