An anonymous reader writes: Debian Project Secretary Kurt Roeckx has announced the results of a closely-watched vote on what statement would be made about Richard Stallman's readmission to the Free Software Foundation's board. Seven options were considered, with the Debian project's 420 voting d...
And every time he treats people in a bad manner he should be reprimended. This isnāt about tolerance towards hurting people, but about judging if the person is actually a āmisogynist, ableist, and transphobicā and all sorts of accusations the open letter claimed.
Oh, we could agree on that.
I might have even agreed with the letter myself had it been more reasonable. But removing him from every āposition of powerā and banning him from being a āspokespersonā isnāt the same.
The problem is, him not being a spokesperson was something that was, in fact, asked multiple times before. But somehow, him still being āin powerā get gets himself into position to become a spokesperson again. This is nothing new.
Too bad this time they decided to use insults and serious accusations rather make the argument you are making, which is somethig a lot more people would have agreed with.
As it is, the request from the open letter is missing the point. RMS doesnāt even need the FSF to go out and make public appearances in representation of the movement he founded (even if heās not representing the FSF, that matters little). It might have actually ended up making the problem with RMS social ackwardness and the image of the movement worse if it meant kicking RMS out and leaving him to his own devices. Heās still connected to the Free Software movement and removing him from a position of power is not gonna change that.
A lot of people could have agreed all the years before ā they didnāt. full stop.
Insults? No, accusations, sure. His behavior was more than inappropriate and that was called out. Iām baffled how one can rile up so much about the wording of the letter, but when RMS said something far more insulting thatās okay, for some reason.
And no, it matters whether heās part of the FSF. Either heās speaking on behalf of the FSF ā or not. That heās literally āMr FSFā is indeed bad and part of the problem.
The signees didnāt suddenly change opinion and agreed on something they disagreed with before. Like you yourself said, āthis is nothing newā, Stallman has been heavily criticized multiple times by his social behavior.
The only thing that makes this time different is that they started collecting signatures and getting organizations to sign for an open letter that was created as a knee-jerk reaction to RMS being admitted in the board of directors of the FSF. A collective campaign as public and well known as this had never happened before, but people accusing Stallman in a such a way have existed for many many years. This is nothing new.
Note that Iām not saying the people who signed (or even wrote) the letter are bad, or toxic, or any other adjective. Iām saying the letter itself (not who wrote it) is misdirected and could result in toxicity. This is the same kind of criticism I throw at Stallman. Itās not in me where youāll see the contradiction.
Iām sure who wrote the letter had the best of intentions, and most likely they were motivated by a will to improve the FSF, not hurt it. I just think the approach was incorrect. Not only in the wording but also in the demands they made.
If instead of explaining that what I say is incorrect, someone tells me that I lack capacity to reason, I see that as an insult.
The only way for it to not be an insult is if they came with solid evidence of the claim (ie. solid proof that Iām unable to reason). Then it will just be a description of what I am, based on proof. But Iāll feel insulted if you call me āfascistā and Iām antifa. Would you not feel insulted if you were accused of being the complete opposite of the values you hold dearest?
Stallman has proven more than once that heās a person committed to the ideals he holds (and one of them is to end āracism, sexism, antisemitism, caste prejudice, and othersā), and has also proven that when confronted about a topic in conversation he can change his mind (as he did about his views on child consent). So if we are to categorize him with the dehumanizing accusations the letter used, we better have solid proof that it wasnāt a mistake, that he really deserves it and that his public statements stating the opposite are a farce. Because heās known to be misunderstood pretty frequently due to his social impairment. This is nothing new.
Iām all for criticizing him about his mistakes and confronting him, even to the extent of making him take responsibility for his social behavior. I can agree that he should not be a spokesperson for the movement, so I rather have him in a role where he can provide direction on the topics heās good at (and he can do that as part of the board of directors) but making it so heās banned from acting as spokesperson in situations that could result in misunderstandments or where someone could be hurt. Thereās plenty of people who can take that role instead (eg. the actual President of the FSF: Geoffrey Knauth). Thatās what the letter should have demanded, instead it demanded to remove Stallman from all directive positions (and not just him, but the entire board!) all while throwing unfair accusations that could lead to him being dehumanized by many when done in such a public way.
I feel like weāre talking past each other here: I do agree! That is, indeed, part of my very point. Heās been criticized many times, but hardly ever changed (we come back to that later).
I never intended to insult you, by the way, if that came of as such. I very much enjoy the discussion.
However, how would you word a letter like that, when you know, from decades of experience, that the person will likely not change their behavior the same way they didnāt for years? Without implying that the person either a) lacks capacity to reason or b) is outright malicious? You ask for solid evidence, but ā¦
The problem here is that many of the things are done, due to the nature of the org, in private. To add a personal story of my hackerspace at university: RMS was in the city and we allowed him to stay for a day in our room at university. Little did we expect him to not move out at all. The only way to get him out again was to pay for a ticket to the next conference. Sure, one can add this to the huge list, but unfortunately I hardly can provide āproofā. Nobody collects such things.
But, proof is not needed as we donāt want to judge him in front of a jury. The FSF in almost all accounts does already know what the people are talking about. This letter is not addressed to the public to hold condemnation and grudge against RMS, but addressed to those who know of the incidents. Usually this would be an āinternal investigationā, however the FSF doesnāt do such thing.
Proof definitely would be nice, absolutely. But asking for proof of things that happened internally is asking for the impossible. Thatās why I donāt judge people who hold him dearly, they are very much allowed to do so.
I even understand if he feels insulted or attacked. Heās confronted with the accusation that heās not what he thinks to be. In fact, Iāve been rightly accused in the same way, and honestly, it was hard, very hard. Sometimes, Iād say, it was wrong, but sometimes the other person was indeed right. They couldnāt always provide proof, but they called out behavior in a message to me and I knew what they were talking about. The next step, though, wouldāve been to call me out publicly, in case I didnāt change.
Itās not about ādeserving punishmentā but protecting others, and the FSF, from harmful behavior. And, while I agree that his changed view on child consent isā¦ a good thing to say the least, itās a very bad thing if peopleās identities (e.g., trans, non-binary people) are invalidated and disregarded (despite scientific evidence!) because heās being pedantic about words. His hybris to think that, just because āwordsā he has more knowledge on this topic than leading psychologists is telling. But worse is that trans or non-binary persons shouldnāt need to defend their very existence and identity at every corner in life. At some point (after decades of years) they cannot be expected to still talk and discuss with him, in very tiring and disrespecting discussions, what and who they are. Mind you, itās great if minorities go out and tell people how it is to be X, but these people should be allowed to just live their life at some point.
And RMS with his stances in the FSF isā¦ not exactly a nice space for most of them. Proofs would be nice, and him changing his opinion would be nice as well. But this is much work that we can, perhaps, expect of the society as a whole but not from the minorities that are already discriminated against.
And I agree that, in theory, the letter should demand just revoking him as a spokesperson. But do you seriously believe that this would stick? He basically made him member again w/o consulting with the board before ā¦ he speaks when he wants, and just not making him spokesperson wonāt change that. Unfortunately.
First of all: sorry for the huge wall of textā¦ as you can guess I also enjoy the discussion.
Oh sorry, thatās not what I meant. Youāve been very respectful.
It was an example to illustrate why I called some of the accusations of the letter āinsultsā, I didnāt want to imply that you insulted me. I should have said āsomeoneā there (in fact I think I did it in a later edit but I might have been too lateā¦ ugh).
Why not just state the facts and let them speak for themselves?
Intentionally hurting people would definitely be a cause to remove him. I expect thatās actually against the FSF code.
The thing with making a public open letter like this is that you need to convince not only the FSF but also those that you are asking signatures from. Specially if theyāre also being asked to boicot the FSF donations and events.
Then it shouldnāt be surprising to see a counter-reaction from those who do not have account of those incidents and who do not think the accusations are deserved.
Like you said, this should not have been about ādeserving punishmentā but about protecting others. Yet the letter does not talk much about the victims, the harm and what caused it. It does not really explain how removing Stallman stops him from that abuse or what has the FSF board of directors done wrong due to Stallman being part of it. The letter does come off as seeking punishment for his independent behavior.
Even if they really did believe that RMS is behaving like that on purpose out of malice/phobia/insanity/other, had they made the exercise of assuming that it was a reiterated and constant mistake would have gone a long way to actually get the point across. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
Itās also ironic that when they actually try to give examples, the only thing they show are either things that have been later corrected by RMS himself (like the child consent thing, but also the GNU Kind Communication Guidelines) or things that when in context are clearly misunderstandments (he isnāt saying that by law all children with down syndrome should be forcefully abortedā¦) or about that publicly available email thread about Minsky where heās really not saying anything crazy when you actually read through it.
That must have been quite a thingā¦ he also came to my University (ages ago) and I heard some things from the organizers about how particular he was. I donāt really remember the details but I can imagine there are many stories like that. Heās definitely very quirky. But Iām sure thereās more than one board of directors with a āstrangeā nerd on it.
Also, when heās called to give a conference like this, normally itās for him to talk about his philosophy and personal history in the Free Software movement, not really about his position in the board of directors from the FSF. So using this as a reason to kick him out would be misdirected.
I agree, but are you referring to this? https://stallman.org/articles/genderless-pronouns.html
Itās possible that heās trying to ārespect the wishesā of non-binary people without really understanding what their wishes are. And knowing how particular he is about the correct manner of saying āGNU/Linuxā I can imagine how a conversation about the topic with him could be difficultā¦
My understanding is that seeking a gender-neutral pronoun can actually be the wrong call, even as an heterosexual male I would find it patronizing if Stallman used the gender neutral pronoun on me, so I expect the same would happen for someone who identified as āsheā / ātheyā or any other pronoun. But is it actually transfobic?
The open letter is locked now and they even closed the issue tracker, but before they closed it there was this comment from a trans person who actually thought accusing him of being a transfobe was too much.
But asking for his removal and the dissolution of the entire board did not stick either.
And even if it had, he still speaks when he wants. Not being in the board of directors is not gonna stop that. If his words are too loud is because of RMS popularity as independent āphilosopherā, not because of his position in the FSF.
If the intention was to play poker and ask for something crazy to try and get anything at all thenā¦ well, it shouldnāt be a surprise if that craziness is called out and it results in mixed reactions that end up mudding the waters and missing the point.
Sure, in the end such poker move might actually work (if the real intention was to get some reaction from the FSF and not really what was demanded) but at what cost? Iām sure things could have gone better by playing it cool. Many portrayed this as a āwitch huntā and I donāt think those reactions were unjustified. This isnāt just bad image for RMS but also for the anti-RMS crowd, to the point that an anti-anti-RMS letter came up with 6000+ signatures, double than the original letter.
np, Iām glad this is mutual!
phew, I sometimes have the issue of coming off condescending, which I definitely do not intend :)
Those facts are difficult to state, since they are mostly related to interpersonal evens like the one I stated. Although I agree that this wouldāve been preferable.
I get your point here, but thatās, to me the crux of the situation: These are internal events and often in violation of the FSFās own code. Thus, there shouldāve been an internal investigation, but that didnāt happen. The problem then though is: What now? As with allegations of (sexual) abuse, those things are hard to proof to the public. However, the FSF board very much knows of (most of) the cases they allude to, and they are the addresses.
However, as you correctly observe, itās an open letter since they need to build pressure on the FSF. But they canāt ājust state the factsā for the reasons mentioned. This is, definitely, a difficult situation.
But I donāt think everyone ought to ādecideā to support one or the other letter, especially those completely outside of the circle. As they, indeed, have very little insight into what happened. Itās an ugly situation, I totally agree with that.
Absolutely, it isnāt surprising! The problem with the whole situation is that it should have been solved internally but hasnāt. Such things are predestined to go badly.
In the end, the immediate circle of people affected (including the FSF board) can really judge. But also, in our society, it is simply a fact that everyone needs to position themselves, despite not actually really being in charge.
I didnāt read the letter that way, but I can see how it can be read as punishment. I can not counter this and have to say that this shouldnāt be (wasnāt?) intended. I agree that discussing the problems the FSF had due to RMS would indeed have been a very healthy addition.
Absolutely. In the end, the letter was an act of frustration long boiling and it reads that way.
What I agree with is that they donāt properly differentiate b/w a) clear violations of other peoples personal identity or similar and b) bad PR stunts. From what I know, both things happened, while the former are usually internal issues (thus shouldāve been resolved internally) and the latter, by definition, public. Taking the Minsky statement, what he said was not really crazy but uncalled-for and absolutely unnecessary pedantry. Furthermore, similar wording is also chosen in malice by those who are defending sexual abuse and belittling victims. I do think RMS wasnāt aware of what he did was basically unintentional ādog whistlingā but this is very bad PR nontheless, and thus harmful to the FSF as a whole. Especially if it happens repeatedly, and no āsorryā or ācorrectionā later can, unfortunately, fix the publicity problems that result from it.
It would have served them well if they had made a distinction b/w these two things.
Sure, but quirky becomes bad rep when it ends in inappropriate behavior like pressing students with little money to pay for (quite expensive) tickets, by simply living in their āworkplaceā. He was told to end this behavior multiple times, but didnāt change. And thatās kind of the issue.
Sure, but then itās bad rep for mostly him and the Free Software movement (bad enough), but the FSF could easily do something like distancing themselves from him. This would do them very good in all such occasions.
I think the key point is āwithout really understanding what their wishes areā, and maybe thatās the distilled version of almost all criticism of RMS. Either he doesnāt care or he thinks he knows better what people wish for than themselves. At first, this is annoying or funny (GNU/Linux pedantry), but when it comes to people and how theyād like to be addressed it quickly leaves that area and becomes downright hurtful.
I wouldnāt count the usage of it transphobic per-se, but with many things -phobic and -ist, it comes down to the power (im-)balance. That is, in current law and society, a trans person defending themselves to be called the pronoun they want has a much harder stance to defend than a non-trans, cis, person. That is, while from RMSā pov misgendering a cis man by referring to them as āsheā or whatever is the same as misgendering a trans person by referring to them with a different pronoun than asked for ā from the affected persons pov this is quite different. Most cis people would definitely feel patronized by it, but they could either shrug it off or, if in public, simply demand him to behave properly. A trans person whoās regularly attacked and invalidated (in our current society) doesnāt have this luxury/privilege, and as such, these statements are hurtful and dangerous.
Basically, what Iām trying to say is: In a perfect society this wouldnāt be much more than patronizing. In a similar way, in a perfect society āblack facingā wouldnāt be any different than āwhite facingā ā but acting as if we were in such a society is wrong and dangerous to minorities.
Now, whether this is transphobic ā¦
ā¦ this is definitely a dividing matter. In my bubble (which, uh, contains quite some people whoāre trans :p), the overwhelming opinion is that what he did, indeed, is transphobic. Obviously thatās no āproofā, but it shows that these people, who experience transphobia from other persons in the society on a day-to-day basis, have a hard time distinguishing (unintentional) dog-whistling and ā¦ patronizing behavior by Stallman from intentional attacks. Mind you, in public most transphobic people (outside of Fox News) disguise their transphobia rather well.
While similar things have been reported for RMS as well (i.e., behaving much worse to trans people in private than in public) I donāt want to dwell on it, as itās not that much convincing. I think, in the end, it boils down to whether one counts unintentional āattacksā as transphobic or not.
To open the RMS-like jar oā pedantry, maybe one could say that:
But then we need to ask ourselves: Does that change much? [to be continued since I reached the character limitā¦ jeez]
EDIT: continuation below in comment to this comment :)
ā¦ Obviously itās important to treat malice different from unintentional things when it comes to judging (and I know, you read the letter as judging and I didnāt but I see where youāre coming from and admit that itās bad that it could be read that way). However, if you read the letter just as a demand to remove him to stop further harm (my reading) then, this is pretty much irrelevant.
Thatās true, and, honestly, kinda shameful for the FSF. The FSF would/will/ā¦ have a hard time to justify itās sense w/o RMS.
I think, in hindsight, the way the letter was worded and prepared was the wrong step forward. Unfortunately, I also donāt really see an alternative. There were more kind, more proper, discussions before, for decades. Sometimes they even resulted in change!
But where are we now, in the year 2021? The FSF has become irrelevant, for many reasons. Some can definitely be attributed to the way the Internet and corporations developed, how Open Source became a thing (ironically ESR has signed the anti-anti-RMS letter :D) etc. But also, the FSF was kind-of at the forefront of political discussion in the technology scene, with seeing the technology as someone that should revolve around human needs and society, and not vice-versa. It was refreshing, it was new, it was progressive.
And while the FSF is still radical, it feels like thatās the only thing left. Radical, senseless (to the point it becomes annoying), repeating of anti-firmware tirades etc. Obviously, many stances are still more progressive than the political climate, but theyāve lost pretty much their target group. It feels like having Rosa Luxemburg as a leader of āThe Leftā: While certainly progressive, not fitting for the time.
People pressed for changes, but nothing could be heard over the deafening presence of RMS. Maybe the best criticism of the FSF is that itās just āThe RMS Societyā. Which isnāt necessarily bad, but it means that we have gap there, where an FSF that wouldnāt be ājust RMSā would be.
All in all, I think we agree on many points of the problem(s). And perhaps even, that such an āopen letterā isnāt always bad, but simply whether this was the point of time that this letter should have been written. And also, that there are certainly some things in the letter that couldāve been phrased better, to say the least.
That was a long comment, but I felt much more comfortable quote-posting as I didnāt want to write this up from memory, in order not to talk past your points or misrepresent you.