Asking for a friend who is writing a novel
Is their being successful going to be used by them to make my life worse? If not, I wish them all the success in the world.
I like that answer for the story and personally. Thank you!
Super unsuccessful on onlyfans is quite funny.
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I mean, sure - why not? Like Ada said, if it isn’t going to cause any negative impact on me, there isn’t a reason for me to object that I can think of.
I would be a bit concerned about the hazards of drawing a lot of attention to yourself on the internet, because of the vile people on the internet - but aside from a brief note about it (if they asked for my opinion), that’s really all I’d have to say on the matter.
Doesn’t matter to me. I’m not wishing harm on anyone, whatever our problems are, assuming they leave me alone. Some people might be disgruntled if they were left in a bad position and then their ex does great. Others might think “hmm, we’d stayed together I could have benefited from a wealthy porn influencer lifestyle”. Personally I think if they can move on and be prosperous, great.
Assuming I really hated them and wanted them to suffer, I’d rather that they be super successful.
I’d want them to be successful enough that people not only have sexual fantasies on them, but also, deranged fans that stalk and harass them. The harassment, stalking, and the “pressures of celebrity” would also likely lead them into a downward spiral. Perhaps the only downside to this is that a crazy enough fan would abduct them, and kill them. If I really hated that ex’s guts, I’d rather them suffer until they either spectacularly implode in public, or fade into obscurity only to resurface in the news as one of those “Where they are now?” articles showing their extremely sorry state.
Otherwise, I don’t really care. They’re not my problem anymore. They’d have far better chances of living a normal life if they were super unsuccessful, though, so there’s that.
What an odd and unhinged fantasy
Eh, given that it’s for a novel, odd and unhinged is a good thing, right?
It’s the kind of comment that ends up being used as evidence in their stalking/harassment/rape/murder trial…
I would rather they be successful. That way its much less likely that I’d get caught up in their bullshit again.
I don’t have many exes, but I always hope they’ll be successful in all the cool stuff that they do. Definitely same goes here!
Now the real quandary is, what are the ethics of looking at your exe’s OnlyFans? Do you ask them first? Is it weird?
I’d want them to be just successful enough that they keep doing it - plowing time and energy that could otherwise be spent on fulfilling hobbies or real relationships - but not so successful that they could really commit to it. Like if they made ~$100/week, it’s not nothing but is it really worth the dozens of hours on weekends and evenings that you are spending to make that?
If y’all had a kid, successful. If she a hoe, unsuccessful.
