At least its centralizing because users are congregating here and not because it’s the only option.

I’d like an instance for people with autism. I would try to set it up, but even if I had the money, I don’t work a job yet, and I’m new to server administration.

there’s !steamdeck@sopuli.xyz which is a steam deck comm

!latestagecapitalism@lemmygrad.ml is a good and pretty active leftist comm on lemmygrad.ml that isn’t hardcore communism if that isn’t your style.

I hope more english lemmy instances come out too because at this point the biggest limitation for me isn’t a lack of offsite comm exploration, there just aren’t a lot of english comms in other instances with any number of users. Even with that though I do wish there was a way to explore comms on other instances instead of having to go out of my way to that instance and look for interesting comms.

I don’t think its an issue that lots of the traffic is on Lemmy.ml it will just take a while for communities to gel and move to more specialised instances.

But hey, how fricken cool that we have those options when we want?!