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  • Reminds me of walking quite far and into the docklands area when my friends were visiting me for a night out at university.

    I said something along the lines of ‘Why are we out here?’ and their reply was ‘We were following you.’ I replied I was following one of them, and then the reply was: ‘You fuckwit, we don’t know where your dorm is.’

    Drinking does seem to ruin critical thinking.







  • You could still distrohop a bit if you want. Debian (as well as mint) is stable, loads of deb packages out there. I really like Fedora (less packages for my use case but COPR is similar to AUR in that there are thousands of packages outside of the main repositories). Ultimately like they said, Arch is really out there with the rolling releases, but sometimes you’ll need to reconfigure. Recently firmware packages got split up and that required manual intervention. Haven’t had any breaks so far, so EndeavourOS is a good choice imo.


  • If you’re new to arch, I think maybe go endeavouros. A new install has update scripts and whatnot, and EndeavourOS has good documentation. Going straight into arch involves a lot of reading the docs just to even get a desktop environment running. You probably want to start with the full package.

    I’m using endeavoursOS gnome.

    Kubuntu will get you familiar with package management, though it could well be managed through a desktop app so you may well barely touch the terminal. But you will discover that there’s a fair bit of bloat - not in the windows sense - but apps that you may not necessarily need.









  • To me, the lady is not really looking at anything, but yes, her eyes are directed behind my shoulder.

    The eye contact ‘language’ is complicated. Sometimes I’m facing someone directly. I’m probably looking towards their eyes 90% of the time with an occasional look in another direction as I process the conversation. Other times I’m faced away in a posture that shows I’m listening (I’m hard of hearing so sometimes I need to have an ear facing towards them); then I’ll be looking towards their eyes 20%-ish of the time.

    I think it depends on the context. In a formal setting facing each other, looking away could be misinterpreted, and eye contact is a skill to be cultivated. Call it ‘cultivating charisma’. I’m a teacher and had to develop quite a lot of experience in it, and popularity tends to scale with its effectiveness.