An interaction I had with yogthos a few days ago. One person was expressing displeasure with them. I said they were maybe a cantankerous douche, but I appreciated that they challenged my viewpoints. We both agreed to dial it down a bit in the future. It felt wholesome.
As in feeling comfortable with others noticing the parts that you’d like to show of yourself? As in being able to share with the recurrent experience of being heard? What do you mean?
As in, if I have a memory of a Lemmy post, comment, or interaction made me smile, I don’t remember it. Or might have never have happened. So eventually i’ll discover something :)
i like how people don’t understand a simple question and post irreverent , of-topic replies and duplicate. But when i post a unique , logical reply with evidence i get downvoted(most likely this reply will also have one downvote.) No one specifies a reason for downvoting either.
This doesn’t make me angry nor sad. Instead it brings a smile to my face.
Edit: I haven’t noticed this in posts i post but only i replies i do.
It could be my stupid bath meme, or the times Dessalines asked what I thought about Dune.
The last one is just wholesome: people sharing what they like. I think I’ve built a bit of a mystique around Dessalines as a leftist programmer, and the “How do you find Dune?” question breaks that barrier a bit.
An interaction I had with yogthos a few days ago. One person was expressing displeasure with them. I said they were maybe a cantankerous douche, but I appreciated that they challenged my viewpoints. We both agreed to dial it down a bit in the future. It felt wholesome.
I think most of that entire discussion was pretty wholesome, especially considering it was a post in !anarchism@lemmy.ml with 70 comments.
thats me thread!
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The title did a good job at framing the conversation in a non-combative way.
to be discovered
As in feeling comfortable with others noticing the parts that you’d like to show of yourself? As in being able to share with the recurrent experience of being heard? What do you mean?
As in, if I have a memory of a Lemmy post, comment, or interaction made me smile, I don’t remember it. Or might have never have happened. So eventually i’ll discover something :)
My whole profile.
I guess I can feel a bit like this as well. What about yours do you like?
i like how people don’t understand a simple question and post irreverent , of-topic replies and duplicate. But when i post a unique , logical reply with evidence i get downvoted(most likely this reply will also have one downvote.) No one specifies a reason for downvoting either. This doesn’t make me angry nor sad. Instead it brings a smile to my face. Edit: I haven’t noticed this in posts i post but only i replies i do.
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Nice
i once coommented something in toki pona and another user understood me
It could be my stupid bath meme, or the times Dessalines asked what I thought about Dune.
The last one is just wholesome: people sharing what they like. I think I’ve built a bit of a mystique around Dessalines as a leftist programmer, and the “How do you find Dune?” question breaks that barrier a bit.
What stupid bath meme?
This one
Lol. Reminds me of another genuine Lemmy meme: https://feddit.de/post/294583
and does it involve you buying bath water from a #gamerGirl?