• @Blattstruktur@lemmy.ml
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    That it is expected to just give out your number to random people, be it work or organizations. I don’t want you calling or texting me, thank you very much.

    • skittermouse
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      73 years ago

      this was my gripe with everyone wanting to use signal. like, no i don’t want to have to maintain a whole other phone number just so i can keep my normal phone number private, i’d rather just use something that doesn’t require phone number in the first place.

        • skittermouse
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          13 years ago

          i guess so, i just prefer to use computer more than phone generally (personal quirk tbh), i do understand that’s not a possibility for some situations/people tho!

    • @roastpotatothief@lemmy.ml
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      Or your address. I’m never going to invite my bank manager around for drinks, so he doesn’t need to know my home address. Here’s my email.

  • @salarua@sopuli.xyz
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    163 years ago

    the fact that nobody knows how to email anymore. nobody knows how to bottom-post, nobody knows how to trim quoted messages, nobody knows that you should always use plain-text email.

    • @BrownNote@lemmy.ml
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      43 years ago

      Wait, why should email always be plain text? HTML allows for formatting, images, links, and tables, which are crucial when communicating at work.

      • @salarua@sopuli.xyz
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        first, security: the web stack is almost impossible to implement securely. there will be vulnerabilities, which will be mercilessly exploited. second, privacy: tracking pixels and other spyware are everywhere in emails. third, accessibility: plaintext emails are a piece of cake for screen readers and braille displays, while HTML emails are a very mixed bag; and plaintext is universal. every email client, no matter how basic or esoteric, is able to display it.

          • @salarua@sopuli.xyz
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            13 years ago

            yes, but there are still the problems of security and accessibility. blocking external content is a band-aid.

    • Oue
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      43 years ago

      i would add blame to Outlook and Gmail being predominant “client” that seem to push top-post replies versus the obviously superior-for-reading-flow bottom-posting.

      i try to plain text reply as often as I can but having the ability to embolden important text is too beneficial

      • @salarua@sopuli.xyz
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        33 years ago

        yes, i addressed that in another reply. personally, for emphasizing things in plaintext, i use **Markdown**, which is actually pretty much universally understood.

    • @salarua@sopuli.xyz
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      33 years ago

      although a lot of this is email clients’ fault. the developers of said email clients were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn’t stop to think if they should, and now we’re all stuck with bad defaults.

  • Major Monday
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    143 years ago

    Adding -holic or -aholic as a suffix for addictions. Alcohol addicts = alcoholic. Chocoholics are then addicts of chocohol? Shoppahol for shopping addicts? I know language evolves, but this one bothers me.

    • Travis Skaalgard
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      Just be aware that making us all antisocial is a part of the bourgieoisie agenda. You’re engineered to be scared of socialization because they don’t want us to unionize or help our neighbors.

        • Travis Skaalgard
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          23 years ago

          I mean, necessary, unfortunately. It sucks but social distancing is necessary for this.

      • @Zalamander@lemmy.ml
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        13 years ago

        Interesting perspective!

        For me the dislike is not so much about the socialization, but rather the demand for immediate attention that the call requests. I always happen to get calls during work hours in the middle of experiments. I just let it ring and text back later, but I always make sure to take a bit longer than if they had just texted, hehe.

  • Dessalines
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    113 years ago

    “It is what it is”.

    You might as well just say, “this”, or in another sense, “there’s nothing we can do to change X”.

  • Travis Skaalgard
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    113 years ago

    When people cut their hair off and say they “shaved their head.” I briefly shaved my head in 2020 and it’s a lot of work. Running the clippers over your head isn’t “shaving.”

    • Oue
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      53 years ago

      care to elaborate? what’s involved once you shave your head? I’m considering a full head shave done professionally.

        • Oue
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          13 years ago

          So razors to clean up any stubble or left over hairs, correct?

          I am just wondering myself how involved it will be after the fact I suppose. sounds pretty involved to maintain full bald head.

          • Travis Skaalgard
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            Yes, “shaving” means running a razor across skin until it is smooth, not just cutting the hair very short. But keeping the look and keeping it practical means shaving every day. Head stubble isn’t like stubble on any other part of your body. Within 18 hours, your head will feel like sandpaper. It will catch on fabric, literally hurt your loved ones’ skin if it rubs against them, and the worse it gets, the harder it is on your razor. I was using one razor blade each day. It was getting expensive and difficult.

            EDIT: I should also add that if you’re not used to it, this entire process is painful. Your scalp is fucking sensitive.

            • Major Monday
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              I find shaving mine once a week is best. Doesn’t get too harsh in that time and keeps my head from being all messed up from overuse of a razor. Every day is brutal to sensitive skin.

              • Travis Skaalgard
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                13 years ago

                Then your hair grows much slower than mine. If I let it go longer than a day, I’d use two razor blades for one shave.

                • Major Monday
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                  13 years ago

                  Well I’m well down the path of genuine baldness so that’s probably true.

  • @roastpotatothief@lemmy.ml
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    Being asked to prove I’m not a robot, by a robot.

    Traffic lights in places they’re not needed.

    Cobblestones on cycling routes.

    Casual incompetence - shop staff who aren’t very good at counting money - telephonists who aren’t very good at listening - managers who aren’t very good at being on time.

    The ill-thought-out anti-covid policy in most territories.

    The gradual descent of western society into slavery.

    Why is nobody else bothered by these things?

  • musicmatze
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    103 years ago

    Most people do not care about good commit messages, proper community organization or working in a clean way that scales (thinking of the NixOS community here).

  • ufra
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    103 years ago

    Lack of awareness of traffic flow. Like a car stopping to let you cross when you’re not in a crosswalk and there’s a good gap a couple cars behind them that won’t stop the flow. How some people walk on sidewalks. How people on planes block the boarding process stuffing their oversized carryon in the bin … etc etc

    • musicmatze
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      63 years ago

      May I ask where you’re from? In my part of the world that’s basically unheard of!

    • @BrownNote@lemmy.ml
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      23 years ago

      I think it is worse when a gas station has a price on the sign, only for you to find out that price is only if you get a car wash.

  • Not cleaning up after yourself or making things better than you found them. The Boy Scouts suck but their principle is forever instilled in me

    • Dessalines
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      y tho.

      Also that one in particular would just be the word’s phonetic spelling. Compared to other languages, english has never cleaned up its spelling, phonetics, etc. Its a language of pure cruft and I support ppl shortening it.

        • @bonus_cat@lemmy.ml
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          43 years ago

          oh man I remember how I felt after I found out aghaidh was pronounced like “ai”.

          that being said tho (sorry, couldn’t resist ;) irish phonology is wayy more regular than English it’s just a removed to learn coming from English letters because it’s hard not to think of them as standing in for another sound.

      • ghost_laptop
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        43 years ago

        It would be a disaster to clean up the spelling or phonetics, it’s something really hard that will most probably end up making everything worse, I think it’s better to make society change the language alone.

  • xenith
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    73 years ago

    extending the sound of a written word by repeating a letter that doesn’t correlate with the sound.

    ex: ohhhhhhh, wayyyyyyy

  • @yxzi@lemmy.ml
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    63 years ago

    Inspired by another post on Lemmy, fruit & vegetables have been getting consistently worse, which doesn’t seem to bother many people (probably due to long-term adaptation + not knowing what to expect)