“debated more NATO shills/tankies on Lemmy” probably won’t be on that list

  • Leon9777000@mujico.org
    8·
    3 年前

    I helped someone to have options in his life to be a happy individual, other than the options his family was forcing him to take. Feels good see him successful and happy.

  • peeonyou@lemmy.ml
    6·
    3 年前

    drugs… i would have been an insufferable lib if i’d never tried a drug in my life

  • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.mlOP
    6·
    3 年前

    For me, I put my pride aside and watched K-Dramas.

    After watching Crash Landing On You (Torrent Link), a story about a South Korean woman who finds herself in North Korea, my life was a complete emotional wreck for months. If I ever get Alzheimer’s, I’ll be happy knowing I can rewatch this continuously.

    • hfkldjbuq@beehaw.org
      2·
      3 年前

      Oh I watched this one as well. Interesting from a social-cultural perspective. Also nice showing an actual nice, true loving couple who care for each other; that guy pretty sweet (well unexpressive in the beginning but it gets better). It is kinda nonsense, cliche, and repeating formulas, but overall good. I just did not like what they made to that other guy bc that girl was like forever alone

      • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.mlOP
        2·
        3 年前

        What happened to Seo Dan was gut wrenching. My girlfriend actually just came back from a musical a few hours ago of the show. Here’s a never-seen-before online pic :D

        • hfkldjbuq@beehaw.org
          2·
          3 年前

          Wow had no idea they were doing such theatrical events. Soo nicee. I’d go with some friends of mine who also watched it. Is that pic in South Korea?

          • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.mlOP
            1·
            3 年前

            Yea, it’s in South Korea. I had the chance to go, but didn’t. Regret is strong, never going to say no to something like this again ㅠㅠ

      • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.mlOP
        1·
        3 年前

        Can’t believe you brought up Seo Dan, I’m about to cry lmao. That show fucked me up. Excited to forget about it then watch it again.

  • graphito@beehaw.org
    5·
    3 年前
    • Forgave and mostly forgotten bad people
    • Achieved some sort of stable structure of my mind
    • Embraced my own life with love and compassion
    • Accepted imminent and possibly quite unpleasant end of life
    • Made other people laugh and have a good time
    • Successfully predicted improbable events in uncertain times
    • Enjoyed company of you, people 😅
  • Slatlun@lemmy.ml
    4·
    3 年前

    Comitted to helping another person find themself. Not guiding, not shaping, just helping with the only motive being that their life satisfaction increases.

  • bobs_guns@lemmygrad.ml
    4·
    3 年前

    agitate people who are more receptive to agitation, not just random shithead liberals who say something awful.

    a handy checklist to gauge general agitatibility in the US, try to get several boxes checked, the more the better

    • not white
    • works for a living (not software development)
    • disabled / lumpen / down and out / chronic health issues
    • has been to prison or jail
    • rides public transit
    • not strongly committed to liberalism (e.g. non voters, apolitical, non organizing leftists, some conservatives)
    • not a homeowner
    • no habit of consuming US propaganda (TV news, Rogan, NY Times/WSJ if not in New York)
  • guojing@lemmy.ml
    3·
    3 年前

    Having children. Its really impossible to describe how much it changes your live for the better (though its also very hard in the beginning).

  • sgtnasty@lemmy.ml
    3·
    3 年前

    got born? nah, i glad I learned its all a game of hide and seek and i am just fooling myself

  • sproid@lemmy.ml
    2·
    3 年前

    Reaching a personal understanding of purpose of life and live by it. And also, truly understanding when they say “perspective is everything”.